Aaron Doughty says single people kill their appeal by treating dating like a serious project. When you relax, stay present, and have fun instead of trying to control outcomes, you become naturally magnetic and attract better connections.
You will attract more love and connection in your life when you are more relaxed, more present, and having fun with the process. Very often what happens if someone's single or someone wants to create new connections in their life, it becomes this serious project that's coming from the level of the ego because the ego wants to control. The ego wants to create some type of outcome. But the thing is, is it's not the ego's job to do so. The key is understanding that the more fun you have in the process, the more magnetic you are, the more present you are, and the more people come towards you anyways. If you go on a date and it's important this person likes you and you're really seeing them and you're giving them the checklist and asking them all the important questions, creates a lot of resistance. If instead you have fun with the process and you're good with either way with which way it goes, you're in an energy of non-attachment. And when you're in non-attachment, you're more attractive.
If you can see this, you're about to become so magnetic you are unrecognizable
