In this self‑help video Aaron explains how an unexamined attitude can sabotage the Law of Attraction and offers three concrete methods to transform it. He first defines attitude as the mental representation of our self‑image and worldview, and reframes the usual "positive/negative" dichotomy into "integrative" (connective) versus "segregative" (separating). Drawing on Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich and Dr. Joe Dispenza’s How to Break the Habit of Being Yourself, Aaron outlines: (1) Neutralizing past experiences by consciously choosing a new, integrative perspective in the present moment, treating every event as fundamentally neutral and planting a positive seed; (2) Reframing perceived failures as opportunities, turning self‑fulfilling negative prophecies into growth‑oriented outcomes; and (3) Changing one’s state of being by creating behavioral triggers that break old personality habits, such as a physical gesture paired with a new belief, thereby reshaping thoughts, feelings, and actions. He concludes by summarizing the three steps—neutralize, reframe, and reset—and encourages viewers to apply them to align their attitude with the desired outcomes of the Law of Attraction.
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This video, I'm going to show you how your attitude may be blocking the law of attraction from working, and I'm going to show you 3 powerful ways for fixing it. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video, I'm going to be sharing with you all about understanding the attitude and how we can align our attitude to then experience the kind of outcomes that we want in our life. Now with this process, let's first off understand what our attitude is. Now our attitude can be thought of as the mental representation and the accumulation of the perspectives that we have about who we are and how we relate to the outer world. Now in general, I think I first heard about— I don't think I see the book over here. There's a book called Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. It's like an OG book on the law of attraction in an indirect kind of way, but it shows the ways of thinking that are necessary in order to get what we want. And something that's talked about a lot in that is understanding what is called the PMA, the positive mental attitude, and choosing to see things in a positive light and how that correlates with becoming successful and getting the kind of results that we want. Now, the idea behind this, of course, is that whatever we focus on grows. If we focus on the positives, we will then get more of a positive effect. Now what I want to do is first off say that if we have a negative perspective, and I'm not saying that you have a negative perspective, but if we see things as more of segregative in the process, as blocks, that what we experience are more blocks. Now what I want to do is share this in the form of idea we may haven't heard of a lot before, and that is changing the meaning of what we associate and think of as positive and negative. Normally we think of positive as good. And negative as bad. Now I'm going to use a different analogy for this. Think of positive of anything that is integrative, anything that is connective, and think of negative as anything that is segregated or that separates. Now using this connotation, that's how I'm going to be using it in today's video so that you can transform and let go of things being good or bad. That comes from more of being attached to certain ideologies or attached to, uh, like the duality of it. This is more of an integrative type process, and as we start to look at it from this point of view, everything will then begin to change. Now, our attitudes are mainly formed from past experiences. We have certain experiences, we have certain state of beings, and then that eventually leaks onto a part of our attitude or the way that we view the world. Now, the way that we change this is we first off must— we must come to grips with the past that we have, and we must decide that we can neutralize the past, we can let go of its power over us by realizing that we can choose a new perspective in the present moment. We can choose how we prefer to feel. We can choose how we respond to the external circumstances that happen to us. Now, this is going to be the 3 things that we can do and the ways that we can fix our attitude. Now, the first thing we can do is realize that we can neutralize any negative situation by choosing to see it as a positive. Now I remember this. This is something that I used to really live by. I still do, but I used to say it all the time and it was a quote from that book called Think and Grow Rich and it had to go with something. With every negative situation that we experience, there is a seed that is planted of equal positive experience or positive outcome. It just takes us a while to see that. Now that's not a direct quote, but it's under that idea. Every negative situation that happens, there's an equal seed of positivity. It just takes us to see it in order to experience it. We must have that perspective and shift our attitude. Now think of the PMA, what we call the positive mental attitude, as choosing to see things as more of integrative, as connective, as a part of the process. Start to realize you associate the meaning as to what things mean. And that in the past we were unconscious to a lot of these meanings of the things that happened. If somebody called us a name, we associated that with something that was very bad. We got a very negative effect out of it. If some negative thing happened, like maybe, you know, we got fired from our job, we associated that with being something that is negative. Therefore, we may have had a negative effect, but the idea is that the moment we decide that we are going to choose the positive perspective, even if that positive perspective is a lesson, That's when we start to get the positive benefit out of it. So that will also immediately raise our own state of being and we will start to feel better about the process. So the first way to fix this is to realize that as we simply decide that we are going to see the positives no matter what, even if that positive is a lesson, we will start to get the positive benefit out of it. So this is about a matter of choice and a matter of perspective and the awareness that every situation is fundamentally neutral. And I use this analogy a lot, but the idea of a rainy day being a positive or negative thing for someone will depend on their attitude and their perspective about rainy days. If they are from like where I'm from, Vegas, they might like the rainy day. And I do because it doesn't rain very often. If you're from Portland, Oregon or Seattle, you might not like it because you're so used to having rainy days back home where you're from that you associate it with being something that is negative. Now the only difference is the internal representation for how we relate to the idea. In the same way, start to see things as integrative. If something happens in your life and it's like you lost your job, or you know, even that perspective of I lost my job, that perspective might insinuate some type of negative experience. Instead, realize that you're being redirected towards something better. You can reframe anything to start getting a benefit out of it. Now, now the second way to fix it has to do with how we see failure and opportunity and how we can relate to it in a completely new way. So behind this, realize that everything we experience in a certain way is a self-fulfilling prophecy. If we experience a block in the process of attracting what we want, then the idea is that we will have that become a self-fulfilling prophecy. It becomes a block because we define it as a block. But imagine that every time something comes into your life, you could simply decide that it is an opportunity for you to experience something more. You know, they say that with a lot of successful people, the one difference that they have when challenges happen is they associate it with it being a new opportunity. In the same way, see the things that happen in your life as an opportunity to experience more of who you are, to figure it out. The challenge, that resistance will create pressure and allow you to break through it, to transcend it, to have a completely new perspective. So what we can do is realize that any negative situation that happens in our life, we can relabel it as something that's an opportunity. And as we label it as an opportunity, that will become a self-fulfilling prophecy and we will then get the positive benefit out of it. Now, the way that I use this is I choose to see nothing as a block. If something happens and it's a challenge, what I do is I see it as an opportunity to figure something out and I know that that as I learn something, I will then get a positive experience out of it, or I will then be able to optimize so that when it happens again, if it happens again, it happens to where I can change it and I have more conscious control over it. So with this, realize that if we simply realize everything is a part of the process, everything is integrative, then it happens in a much more smooth way because we aren't mentally labeling and adding in these blocks. Into the experience. So this comes from once again realizing that everything is neutral, that if we define it as a part of the process, as integrative, and we choose for it to be an opportunity, that's when we really start to get the benefit out of it. And we will then start to change our attitude because we relate to the situation in a new way. Now, the third way to change our attitude is to simply change our state of being and change the triggers that may bring us back into our old personality. Now I explained this a lot and I love to talk about it, but our personality is creating our personal reality. This is something that I got from the book called How to Break the Habit of Being Yourself by Dr. Joe Dispenza, and he talks about how, how we think, how we feel, and how we act is the composition of our personality and how we must change that to get a new reality. Now in the same idea, realize that our attitude has a part to do with that. And when we change the way we relate to ourselves, when we change and we create triggers that break us out of our old state of being, out of our personality, that's where everything begins to change. So to create a trigger, simply become aware of certain thought patterns you have, become aware of certain habits you have, and simply decide to break the habit. Now, break the pattern, break the habit. That's what I do. I used to do this thing where I clap my hands like this. And I like smile, and what I do is that will break the pattern. And then what I can decide to do is insert the new belief, the new attitude, whatever it is. So realize that your personality is creating your personal reality and that what you can do is find yourself anytime that you're kind of leaking back into the old way of thinking, the old attitude. What you can do is break the pattern. You can smile, you can do something that's a gesture that kind of changes your physiology and then decide to put in the new state of being. If this has to do with maybe a bad habit that you have of eating a certain way or of a kind of maybe even your body posture, you know, the posture we have affects our physiology, the way that we feel. What you could do is anytime you find yourself slouching over, do that thing, clap your hands, smile, and then what you do is you begin to change the way that you feel about yourself. At the same time, realize that everything you experience in your life is a choice of focus and is a choice of your own state of being. So simply choose to be happy and that's where everything will begin to change. So first off, realize that what you can begin to do is to neutralize the past experiences you've had. You can realize that everything is fundamentally neutral, that we tag a meaning as to whether things are positive or negative. That secondly, everything that happens in our life, we can see it as an opportunity to grow. As an opportunity to learn something new, and that as we do that, we make things more integrative. We can let go of thinking things are blocks, and as we do that, everything begins to change. And then thirdly, change our state of being by changing our personality, the way that we view ourselves, the way that we think, we feel, and act. And as we begin to do that, we begin to change the outer reflection that we get. So with that being said, I hope you guys enjoyed this video. Feel free to like this video if you liked it, subscribe if you haven't already. Also hit that little notification gear so that you're able to see the daily vids that I do. And other than that, I will see you guys on the next vid. Peace, much love, namaste.
