You become magnetic when you stop caring what people think. Release the need to control outcomes and opinions, let your nervous system relax, and let a higher power flow through you instead of your ego chasing external validation.
When someone's not attached to whether someone likes them or not, they're more magnetic. Think about like the most magnetic person you know. Are they trying to control things in their life? Are they trying to control how people think about them? Probably not. You probably realize they're just being, they're being themselves. They may let certain people be a certain way or not be a certain way, and that is a quality that makes them magnetic. So one of the things that you wanna look at doing in order to be magnetic is letting go of outcome. It's letting go of attachment to what people think. It's letting go to the belief that you need to control to begin with and begin to pattern your nervous system to feel relaxed in new ways. Experiences. Feel present when things come up, and when the old patterns come up, observe them and realize, oh, there's that controller pattern that's trying to feel safe. There's that part of me that thinks it needs this person or this thing to happen in a certain way for me to feel good. Letting go of outcome is so magnetic because you're allowing God to flow through you. You're letting go of the ego's desire to control everything, the ego's desire to control other people.
If you can see this, you're about to become so magnetic you are unrecognizable
