When you stop needing people's approval or expecting specific outcomes, you become magnetic. David Hawkins' research shows expectations create inner pressure that others sense and resist. The mantra "I'm good either way" keeps you neutral and powerful, letting you attract people without trying to control what they think.
Chapters
You are the most magnetic version of you when you have let go of outcome. And ironically enough, you can only really let people like you when you don't care whether they like you or not, when you're not attached to what they think. Because if you are attached to what they think, you create inner resistance. And in a way, if you want them to like you, there is a control going on. You want something from them. I was reading, rereading a book called Letting Go by David Hawkins, and it talks about how anytime we have an expectation of someone else, we create inner pressure. Inner resistance that subconsciously people fight against. And what happens is they feel that, and it's a subconscious thing. And this is why when you are good either way— let that be the mantra of this entire video— I'm good either way. I'm good whether you like me, and I'm good whether you don't like me. I'm good whether this thing happens in my life. I'm good if this thing doesn't happen in my life. And when you are in that neutral space, that's where the power is.