A speaker warns that divorcing parents weaponize their children, threatening to cut off relationships with the other parent. He argues that outsourcing childcare to nannies causes identity confusion and emotional neglect, citing Jamaican caregivers as an example of children losing connection to their biological parents and adopting foreign accents.
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I had to talk about the fact that after they get divorced, what do they do? They want to take revenge against each other, so they use the children. They destroy the children because they want to get back at him. Poor kids, they don't know what to do anymore. If you speak to your father one more time, you're done with me. If you speak to your mother one more time, I won't come to your wedding. That's what they do. Leave the children alone. The children are not shoes. You take these shoes and I take these shoes. It doesn't work that way. Children need their mother, even if the mother was not such a great person. But after all, what are you gonna do? Because of the ego, you're gonna raise your own children while you're going to work and you come at 8 o'clock at night? You're gonna raise children, or you're gonna put a woman from Jamaica to teach your kids and to change their diapers, that they grow up and they will speak to you in Jamaican accent? Some of the Jews that I know— yes, yes, it's not a joke. They have Jamaican accent because the maid raised them. They didn't see their parents. They don't know who their parents are. And usually it ends with heavy drugs. When you don't grow with your parents, you have a maid, it's finished with drugs in a very young age. Because they don't have love. The maid doesn't care about them. No, it's not my mother. What? And their children don't get enough love. If you only knew how many kids in communities from great families are addicted to horrible drugs, you won't stop crying for the next 5 years. From how many tragedies are here on the streets in almost every other house.
