Samir Gardner argues the Easy Peasy method fails because it blames a fictional monster instead of addressing why you actually use porn. His alternative, The Freedom Model, focuses on changing your beliefs about what porn does for you, since it doesn't actually relieve stress.
I've read Easy Peasy Method 4 times and I never ever broke free from porn at that time. I still remember reading Easy Peasy for the first time and thinking, this is the greatest book on earth, it's gonna make me quit forever. And I even sent the book to my friends so that they can quit as well. But a few months down the line, I would still relapse to porn, I will still masturbate, and I didn't understand why. So I thought, you know what, let me just go and read the book again. But there was 2 things inside of the book that made it almost impossible to actually quit, and they didn't realize what were those things. So today I'm gonna show to you why exactly Easy Peasy doesn't work and what's the better alternative out there that you can read for free. My name is Samir Gardner Gardner. I've coached hundreds of men now to quit porn and masturbation forever. I've been free myself now for multiple years and I've studied Easy Peasy. So I'm gonna explain why this book that everyone claimed to be the best book to quit porn is completely bullshit. So first thing, when you read Easy Peasy, they promote this idea that there's a little monster inside of you. Not only does the little monster not exist physically, obviously, but also the problem with that is that they make you believe that you're fighting something external to you. So instead of having awareness and understanding human behavior, simply understanding how humans even make decisions in the first place, they instead blame this porn problem on something called little monster, which you have basically no control over because it's external to you. So what does that create? It creates an external battle that is basically inside of you, which makes no sense. And you feel like you're always fighting this quote-unquote little monster. And the worst part about this is that you think that you can kill the little monster like they say, but the moment you go and watch softcore porn or even watch porn, now the little monster grows back again, which shows that the little monster is always going to be there because it doesn't actually exist. It only exists in your mind, and because you believe in it, it always exists. So it basically just creates an unnecessary battle. And instead of focusing on why you even watch porn in the first place, the root cause and doing the subconscious alternation to understand like, okay, I'm watching porn because of X and X and X and X, instead just blame the little monster and your addiction and withdrawals, which basically clouds the real reason why you even watch porn or masturbate in the first place. So that's the first thing. Second thing, easy peasy actually brainwashes you. We gotta understand that humans act based on perceived value. So what is perceived value? Perceived value, it's like me being sick. Let's say that I have a cold and I want to get rid of and I have this medication here that will help me get rid of the cold. Now perceived value is the fact that, okay, there's a lot of value. This can cure my sickness, make me feel more happy, make me feel better, which motivates the human being towards, you know, taking whatever is perceived, you know, to be valuable. Now the thing is, it's perceived. It's not actually valuable. It's perceived to be valuable because maybe the pill doesn't contain anything. You just perceive it to be, right? And humans still act on perceived value, not on value, but on perceived value. Now the problem with Easy Peasy is that they tell you that, oh yeah, porn creates your stress, but porn also relieves your stress. Isn't that crazy? They tell you, okay, yeah, you know, you have all of this stress in your life, all this anxiety, all of this tension in your life. It was created by porn, but porn also relieves it. So essentially, the perceived value you're getting from porn now is that porn relieves your stress, relieves your anxiety, relieves your depression, relieves your pain, relieves your tension, relieves your sexual needs. You believe in that, which is a ton of perceived value, because you think, oh my God, I'm gonna make— I'm gonna feel better in the moment being because I'm gonna relieve my stress, my anxiety, and all of those things, which creates an urge, a want for it, because there's so much perceived value. But at the same time, they don't tell you that porn doesn't actually relieve those things. It's your mind. You're creating a placebo effect because you believe that they're actually going to be relieved by porn itself. There's many studies, for example, depressed people taking antidepressants, but the reality is the pill contained nothing. The pill contained only flour, and they took the pill and actually showed increase in well-being and happiness, even though the pill contained nothing, which means that their mind created placebo effect and made them feel better because they perceived the pill to be something that will give them a solution just because of their perception. Now, Easy Peasy tells you that porn relieves your stress, so that's your perception, that porn relieves your problems, that porn relieves your tension. Even though it's not true, you believe in it and it becomes a placebo. So guys, these are the two reasons why. And if you actually want to quit porn and masturbation forever, I am currently working on a book, but there's a book that will really change the way you think forever and actually help you quit porn forever. And that book is called The Freedom Model. That book literally tells you, literally tells you how to destroy your perception around drugs and alcohol, which can be applicable to porn and masturbation, and really get rid of the real brainwashing inside of your head that you have not been able to get rid of. And because of that, as a byproduct, you don't even want or feel like watching porn or masturbating. You literally have zero urges. That's what happened to me. That's what happened to my students. And go down in the link in description to read it. I'll put the promo code so that you can have the book for free and read it online. And If you have any other questions, just DM me on Instagram and I'll answer them to you so that you can really become free forever and not be trapped eating easy peasy and doing all of these NoFap techniques. Samir Gardner Gardner, and I'm out.
