Focus On You

What's up, y'all? It's Samir Gardner. Hope y'all doing good. So, bro, focus on you. I swear, you are the only one that's supposed to be important to you. And I'm not saying you should be 100% selfish, but things external to you, bro, they don't matter. They don't matter. Why? Because you cannot control what's external to you. I don't care, man. I got people around me that eat McDonald's 24/7. But what can I do? It's their choice. It's their body. It's their mind. It's not my body or my mind, and I'm not eating McDonald's. So why would I worry? You know, I don't care no more about this because people— like, like my whole life, not ever since I've been on this journey, like I've been trying to change people, but it never worked. Like, I, like, I see sick people around me, I'm like, 'Yo, I can maybe heal them or something.' And bro, they don't want to. So I'm wasting so much energy just trying to help people, but they don't want it. They don't want to change. So, and it's not their fault, nor it's my fault. So what I learned is that keep your energy to you and use your energy to manifest things you want, okay? Use your energy to put towards your business. Use the energy to manifest things instead of trying to help people that don't need help. Right now, all I do is I help people if they want help, like on YouTube. That's one of the reasons why I do YouTube, is because I want to help people achieve a better life. Because in real life, people I know don't want to change. So if I can at least change someone's life on YouTube, that would be like— that would be life-changing for me too. But You know, people— you cannot change people around you. So focus on you. You matters, okay? People like this other guy, like, he matters to him. Like, you know, he doesn't care about you. You think— you think he cares about you, so why would you care about him? Like, bro, I'm not saying, oh, don't care for people you love, or don't show them love or anything, but bro, how you change the external is by changing the inside, okay? Once you change the inside, things outside of you start changing subconsciously. I swear. Like, let's say you start eating healthy and, you know, people see that you've changed and everything, and that, you know, you look healthier. People will be like, yo, I want to do this too. And that's how you change people, by not forcing them, okay? People have their own decisions. And you cannot force someone to, uh, choose certain things over— like, you cannot, bro, you cannot say to someone, don't, don't eat this or don't eat that, if they, they did— if they did not ask you for any advice. Like, just focus on you. Like, let's, let's say you see someone who's always, uh, lazy and everything. Like, bro, is it you? No. So why would you worry if it's not you? Why would you worry if he's lazy? Then good for you. You can, you can work on your job and you don't have to, you don't have to, like, you're not him, so, and you're not lazy, so that matters. But it doesn't matter that this person is lazy. Stop caring about them. Start caring about you. You worry, oh, maybe he's not getting enough minerals in his body, maybe he needs to get on a better diet. Now, bro, Look at what you eat, don't look at what they eat. Like, what they eat is not what you eat, okay? So bro, focus, focus on you. You cannot change the external. You cannot change the external. You can only change your body and mind and heart, okay? And that's like, you can change other people's mind and body and hearts, but only if they want to, only if they ask help. So Only help people that needs, that ask for help, okay? So that's it for the vid. Hope y'all liked it. Comment, share, subscribe, and like. I'm out, peace.