In this candid monologue, the speaker shares his personal experience of chronic loneliness, describing how he has had no friends since high school and feels socially unworthy. He recounts his brief stint in college, the lack of meaningful connections, and the emotional pain of being excluded. The speaker then reframes his isolation as a blessing, arguing that solitude offers a massive space for self‑reflection, personal growth, and self‑improvement. He outlines lifestyle choices that support this mindset—avoiding parties, junk food, and excessive social media, focusing on reading, healthy eating, and yoga. He cites inspirational online creators such as Spiritual Soul and Hamza, using their stories to illustrate how one can turn a lack of friends into motivation for entrepreneurship, content creation, and deeper self‑knowledge. Throughout, he encourages viewers to see the positive side of being alone, to journal, visualize, and possibly start a business or YouTube channel. He ends with an invitation for direct messages, emphasizing that those who feel alone are not truly alone because they share the same experience.
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Now I know you're probably alone like me. You have literally zero friends. The only people you talk to is your family or some people related to your family. I know it feels, bro, it's pain, bro. It's pain. You don't— you see other people on the streets literally just talking to their friends 24/7. They're always with their friends and you don't even have friends, bro. That's how I live, bro. That's how I live, not because I want to. It's just how it is. But ever since, uh, high school finished, I didn't have any friends. I went to college for one semester, bro. One semester. And no, not, not one semester, but one session. I went just for one session and I was lonely at college, bro. The only people I was talking to is the people I was doing like the homework with. Like the work, the projects. I didn't have any friends. Even people from high school, I'll say like hi to them, but it feels like they were not interested in me, and it feels like I wasn't worthy for them, you know? Like every, every day of my life, bro, ever since I was around people, except when I was very young, I always felt like I wasn't worth enough for them. Like, I wasn't like popular like them. I always felt like I couldn't fit in because I wasn't popular, bro. Just because I have 1,000 Instagram followers. Just because I have like whatever, like the attractiveness of everyone else. Just because I don't do parties and everything. I don't, I don't, you know. And then I came on my self-improvement when I was near the end of high school, and I realized like, bro, these people, I'm actually better off alone without them. Yes, you need relationships in your life, but I'm actually better off alone because they provide more negativity than positivity. You know, I can't even be myself around those people. I can't. I, I literally can't because I will get judged. And then like, I will see this seem like weird enough to— bro, I, I just try to talk about, uh, to other people about eating healthy, and to them it's like, oh, you're a yoga girl who just eats granola or something. Bro, like, it's— bro, it's like, maybe it's just a blessing, bro. I feel like it's a blessing. Because we all know, like, pain right now is, is gonna be like growth, bro. It's just gonna make you grow. Like, we all know this, you know. I've watched a video yesterday by Spiritual Soul that says, uh, watch this if you have like zero friends and you're alone. And bro, I resonated, bro. I don't do parties. I don't, I don't do the, the shit other people do, bro. I don't do that shit other people do. I don't literally think about anything other people do. I don't do that. Yes, I read books and so people read books, but I don't go to parties. I don't eat junk food. I don't do those things. I don't go on my phone on social media. Bro, I don't do those things, okay? And bro, it leaves you alone. It feels like a curse because at first it's like, oh, now I can focus on myself. But then it's like you crave relationships, bro. I've been craving relationships so much. I've been visualizing, visualization, like I've been doing visualization, but not for this, but I've been literally thinking about like if I'm with someone else, like I'm literally like, you know what I mean? Like I'm trying, I'm craving relationships to be honest, but Bro, at the same time, like, bro, this is a blessing. This is a blessing, literally, bro. If you're alone right now like me, bro, first of all, we're both alone, bro. Like, so we are not alone. That means like we're both alone, so we understand ourselves, so we're not alone actually. But this is the best thing because, bro, the— your room for growth is so huge. Yes, you can do like what other people say, like focus on yourself, but to be honest, bro, you can reflect on yourself, you can know so much about yourself, you can— bro, it's crazy. Yes, I'm not saying like relationships are bad and they prevent you from growth. No, no, no. But look at it like I look at someone like the YouTuber Hamza. He had no friends and then he came up on YouTube and he made a lot of money. We gotta see things like this, bro. We gotta see things like this. We gotta see things like, oh, I can do this with my situation that can propel me to so much growth, that can propel me to where I want to be. See the positive, bro. See the positive, please. Yes, you have zero friends. Like me, for example, with my mental health, like I don't even want to do anything anymore. I don't I don't even go to college anymore, so I don't even be in contact with people. I don't even have a job at the moment. I might get one soon, but bro, it's like, see the positive about this. I can literally just make a channel and help people that are alone. That's my positive. Your positive can be I can literally work on a business Whenever I want, I can literally— well, I can literally journal about myself and find some, some like real, like deep stuff about yourself, bro. Think about it like this. If you're alone, bro, you're not alone. I'm alone too, so we're not alone, bro. We're not alone, bro. If you want to DM me or something, DM me, like I'm down. Like, bro, we're not alone in this.
