In this self‑help monologue, the speaker argues that habitual masturbation is a destructive distraction that wastes time, fuels fantasy, and creates a cycle of shame, fear, and reduced drive. He explains that the act itself is not inherently harmful, but the mental side‑effects—constant fantasizing, loss of focus, and emotional turmoil—undermine productivity and fulfillment. By quitting, individuals reclaim time, energy, focus, and motivation, leading to overall life improvement. The speaker offers one‑on‑one coaching to help viewers stop masturbating within 14‑20 days, providing a link in the video description.
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If you don't stop masturbating, these things will happen to your life. And trust me, it is not pretty at all. I've coached many people to actually quit masturbation alongside porn. And when they quit, their life changes forever. And it's not because of semen retention. It's not because of NoFap. It's simply because they remove a distraction from their lives, which has multiple side effects, which we will talk about in this video. And being free myself completely from masturbation, not even having the desire to do it anymore, I still remember when I was struggling with masturbation, there was a few side effects that I was not aware of, and that if I kept on masturbating, it would literally ruin my life forever. Now, the first thing is time, okay? Time. What do I mean by time? When you masturbate, do you realize that it wastes your time? Well, obviously the answer is yes, and there's nothing new under the sun. But the problem is not only that, but it's what it comes with, okay? When people masturbate, what do they usually do also? They fantasize. And if they make masturbating a somewhat important part of their life, or a part of their life which consumes a lot of time from their life, what's gonna happen is maybe as a byproduct they'll also start fantasizing more. And when you fantasize more, the problem that's gonna happen is you— for example, if you are on your computer and you're working on a project, well, because fantasizing starts becoming a important part of your life, you'll literally start fantasizing instead of doing the work, which means you're going to be distracted, which means as a byproduct, you're not going to get as much work done, which means as a byproduct, you're not going to achieve as much, which means as a byproduct, you might not be as fulfilled because you wanted to do certain things which you told yourself you would do and you don't. And this is the problem with masturbation. Another problem is, what is— what does it give us? You can argue that, yeah, it gives us, uh, some health benefits, but it's like, cool. I mean, I can exercise and get like 100 times way more benefits. Can say it's relaxation, but it's like, it's relaxation because you have the intention of relaxing. And look, you can relax by just sitting on a couch and sleeping or taking a nap. And that's actually real relaxation. You can say it's pleasure. Well, life has so many pleasurable things that you can do. How is masturbation special from anything else? So the problem is not really the habit of masturbation, in and of itself. It's more so how people let it consume their lives on a mental side. For example, people start struggling with masturbation, especially when they come into the NoFap space, and that creates what we call a battle, okay? They think that they struggle with masturbation, so that means that they spend their day sometimes, or a few minutes, or a few hours inside of the day battling masturbation. And trust me, this is the biggest waste of time that you can have in your entire life. Because what happens is, if let's say for example, you choose to masturbate, you feel shame. And because you feel shame, you don't do anything for the next few hours. And that is a big problem if you don't do anything with your life because you said, oh, I masturbated, I feel shame, I shouldn't do this. And then worse, you start fearing that you're gonna relapse in the future because you just watch, because you're just masturbating. So you are in a fear state and you don't even enjoy your life as much anymore because of that. And also, you don't even know how to leave masturbation behind because you're always thinking about fear rather than if you want to masturbate in the first place or not. And that consumes so much from you, man. That consumes your drive for life. Because if you really think about it, your drive for life is mostly in your mind, right? Because you think, for example, of something that motivates you. You think of things you want to achieve. You think of things you like. And that's what makes you driven most of the time. Well, if you just think about, oh, am I gonna masturbate? I'm gonna masturbate. Oh, imagine if I masturbate, it will be so nice. Oh, but if I masturbate, I'm gonna feel shame. That consumes your life in a very negative sense. So when you leave masturbation and you leave everything that comes with it, the number one benefit you're gonna get is time, drive, focus, energy, and all of those things that literally will translate in any aspects of your life and make your life great again. That's why when I say when you leave masturbation, it's going to change your life, it's not because of masturbation, it's because of everything that comes with it. And also how you're gonna transform yourself mentally. If you wanna be coached by me one-on-one so that you can leave this forever in 14 to 20 days, you can book a call with me down below. There's a link in the description to do so. Anyways, I'll see you in the next video. Peace.
