Building Empires while raising kids

People like to romanticize their lives to make things, like, seem easier and cooler, when in reality you're just romanticizing your life to procrastinate. Doing the actual work.

Yeah.

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Our last. Our last.

Just do it.

Our last episode, we were talking about. Well, we're talking about, like, social media, building brands, and then talking about how.

Do you get a lot of stuff done at once? That was originally what Parker started out with. And that led us down a path of Bailey's discovery about the fact that she is scared to launch because she might fail.

Here's what.

Talk to us more about this.

Was that in the last episode, if you watched it. If you didn't go watch it. And I'm a verbal processor and I'm currently not in therapy, so this is my therapy. So basically I discovered that. Hold on. My ADHD is kicking in and I'm not really knowing what I say.

You had, like, an aha moment. You were like.

I said, oh, I. Oh. Because I was, like, trying to figure out why I'm too scared to put both, like, feet, like, through the door instead of just, like, have one foot in, one foot out. And then I realized that, like, I want. I'm super indecisive, which is rooted from my anxiety. And because of that, I want. I don't. I'm not the type of person to have, like, the need of acceptance from other people or the need to, like, have approval from other people. I'm kind of like a fuck it. But with make big decisions or even little decisions. I found out that I, like, crave that approval because then if something goes south, then I have someone else to blame. And it's not just myself to blame.

I feel like that's how most. That's how most people are in the conversation there. Never mind. No, that's going to take a step.

But I feel.

But I feel like that want to go down.

Most people don't want to fully commit because then they're like, there's this fear that they're not going to become this, this person. And I've been promoting a lot lately. I'm like, hey, if you actually commit and do the work, guess what? You're going to see progress. We all have this idea that there's this, this line of perfection, but there's, there's nothing that like this person you see is never perfect because everyone's always evolving. Which means this false story of like, this, like the person you think you are is false. So it's you. That's why I tell people I'm like, this game doesn't end. We're always evolving. So when you look at that in perspective and you just commit to do the work, you're going to see progress. And progress is the win. When you see yourself grow, you're like, whoa, look who I became. So whenever I think of it in that perspective, it makes me like kind of push that fear of failure out. I'm like, there's no way you can fail when you do the work because you'll see progress, right?

Yeah. So it's just how you live life. Like literally just like, fuck it.

My last year I've been in a mode of like, what do I got to lose? And with everything we've built, I'm kind of like, what do I got to lose? And also this year I've kind of been like, open to being like, God, what do you want me to say today? Like, I'll be your tool. How should I do this? And then sometimes I'm like, ah, I really fucked up last night. Well, I'm human and not living in this space of like, oh, I'm human. And then guilt. And then like going, we were walking and talking on Sunday and, and I was like, here's the biggest mistake that humans make is we live in this land of guilt. And actually digress when you, what you really need to do is say like, shit that happen. I'm going to get back on track. Perfect thing. I'll give you as an example that humans do all the time. Especially if you're somebody who's lost an immense amount of weight or you're trying to like this, this health nutrition thing is like, you lose all this weight, then you have like a bad meal or whatever it is, and then you self sabotage and like starve yourself for three days. And. And I'm like, the best thing that you can do is get back on track because starving yourself on three days, you're just doing this stupid roller coaster based off of guilt and self sabotage. Even with Garrett and I's relationship, there's times that I'm like, man, I really feel disconnected, and I feel really off, and I can wall up and I can stonewall, and I can, like, actually have this get even worse. Or I can say, shit, you were busy this week. I was busy this week. But instead of me, like, feeling kind of closed off, I'm like, hey, I'm just gonna, like, get back on track. And so that's, like, basically, like, what I have been communicating to my students lately is, like, stop living in this weird land of guilt. Just tell yourself, don't make up new stories. Dad's like, the king of this. Like, I love him, but he will take something and makes it a gazillion stories. And I'm like, why did you take some? We got in a fight. That doesn't mean that, like, we're like, you just made up so many other stories. Why don't you say, hey, we got in a fight. Like, I love you. That sucks. Let's go over in therapy and let's just get back on track.

Yeah, well, I think, too, like, it's hard to be able to, like, give other people grace and give other people those things if you can't give it to yourself. So, like, if. If you're wanting, like, especially in a dynamic, like, that's what I've found, at least. Like, the grace that I give my guys is the same grace I give myself. So I'll still snap and I'll be like, yo, like, the. Like, one of my guys came to me on a call like, this last week, and he's like. He's like, yeah, dude. I was like, you've been doing your abs. He's like, man, I've been off. I was like, I know. I saw your photos. And he's just like, oh. And he's just like, oh, man. Like. Like, it feels so shitty. I was like, hey, accept it.

Cool.

You got fat, bro. Welcome. I was like, so now what are you gonna do about it? I was like, you can either guilt and shame yourself for being fat and eating cheetos and. And he's not fat. But, like, we talk like this. I'm just like, yeah, dude. Because I think I'm fat when I'm not fat, so same thing. And then he's like, I gotta get back to my abs. I'm like, done. I was like, start today and just be done with it. Like, stop second guessing. Stop thinking about all this other shit. Doesn't mean anything. Like, cool. You got fat. End of Story. You want to be fit, so go that way. Then, like, instead of having to be like, oh, I need to change a new workout routine. I need to change my eating now. Oh, I think the star came out weird last night. So now I need to have nine hours of sleep versus eight hours of sleep. Must be that it's like.

Yeah, People like to romanticize their lives to make things, like, seem easier and cooler when in reality you're just romanticizing your life to procrastinate. Doing the actual work.

Yeah. Wow. Did you just give yourself a speech? I did. Tell us more about this. That was awesome. That was really, really good.

I'll give you round of applause. If you're not copying right now.

I'm giving you.

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No, because I noticed like on you. This is where this stemmed from. Was YouTube right now is filled with the like whole. Which it's working for a lot of YouTubers, but it's filled with how to get out of a rut. Romanticizing my life, 5am in New York at my penthouse and going to the gym, when in reality there's this one youtuber I love and she does those type of videos because those are what work for her. But then she does her actual normal vlogs that like 90% of her viewers don't see. And just her OG people who like followers follow her daily content see, and she's sleeping until like 2 fucking PM and then she's like doing her business because she's a. She's a millionaire at like 20 and she's like running her, like, clothing business, not giving a fuck, staying up till like probably 7am she has 7 other editors editing her shit. Like, she's not doing the. I'm at the gym this morning, I lifted 300 pounds and I'm gonna get my Erewhon smoothie and my Hailey Bieber necklace. Like, you know, and so with that, it's like so many people, like now on TikTok, you're like, let me romanticize my getting ready with me. When in reality it's like you could have just gone to the gym, done your thing, looked like shit, if that's how you looked for the morning and then came back, made your food and then started doing your work and then done your thing, you know, instead of like setting up the camera and then setting up all the other things and then doing your makeup for the. And if, you know, if that makes you feel happy, that's fine. Like, if that's what actually helps you to get your work done, it's fine. But it's like, at least for me personally is like, when I try to romanticize my work that I do throughout the day, I just end up taking four hours on something that would have taken me 45 minutes.

So when is this? How's this?

Yeah, but you do photo shoots. Like, you do photo shoots and that to me is like the hook, right?

Yeah.

So she's doing her Hollywood, whatever, New York skyscraper thing. That's like a hook. You're like, I want to live her lifestyle. And the reality is, yeah, maybe she doesn't get up at 7am, but she's got the penthouse and she's making millions.

But this is what I'm saying is that for her, it's her business, so she's making money off of doing that. But for people who it isn't their.

Business, does she sell?

Right, well, so originally she started out just being a YouTuber and so she sold herself, like, her videos. And then last in like 2023, 2022, she launched a hoodie company and then blew up. Like that made her a millionaire. Like, all this, like, she.

Prior to that, what was she doing?

YouTube videos of, like.

And how much money was she making?

I don't know.

How long has she been doing YouTube videos?

Since she was 15. She got kicked out of her house at 15 in Canada. She's like 20.

So she'd done videos for five years before she did the hoodie thing.

Mm.

So she crushed it online and putting content out. Radically intense.

Yeah.

Before getting paid.

Yeah.

Five years.

This isn't me shitting on her at all.

I love her.

I'm saying that for her business.

No, no, this is me hanging you with your own content.

Dad's pulling this to you.

This is a reframe you didn't even see coming.

No, I did. I was just trying to ignore it.

What's the reframe? So how long does she deploy content before she got the Manhattan lifestyle?

Well, she got her LA lifestyle. She got a big ass house in LA when she was 17 or 18.

Okay, awesome. How long has she been deploying content before that?

Three years.

And how consistent was she with the content?

Once a week.

And what kind of content was she delivering? Shitty. No quality. Well, her beginning was 10 minute blog, right?

Yeah, but they were good at it.

Sixteen ones were. And then in six, when she turned 16 was when they started.

But she was editing like crazy and she put in a ton of work into it. Thoughts Even scripts.

Yeah.

And the way she's doing it.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Okay, so how often was she releasing it?

Once a week.

Okay, cool. Parker, so we'll come back to you on that one here in just a second. Parker, talk to us about the jump, though. Like, you want to jump to 20k a month from. From 10k a month. And like, less than a year ago, you were at 5k a month.

Like 2k.

2K a month?

Yeah.

Okay, so like, what's the thing pulling you forward? Why. Why do more?

Because you want. You want my ego answer? You want, like another answer?

The ego answer and the seminar answer.

Okay. The ego answer is because I deserve to live better than what I'm living.

Okay.

I also know that I have to earn that. And then the authentic side you want.

That would like, have you. I want different than now.

Do you want. You want to know what this. This may sound absolutely awol, but I want to be in a position where I can have kids.

Oh, wow.

So like, in the sense of like, I don't want to have to worry about money. I don't want to have to be financially like, oh, you did?

I didn't see that coming. You want a baby son?

I. Dude. I've always. My whole life, I've imagined having my own family. I've always wanted to create my own family and have the family seem so young.

Yeah, I had a baby at 24.

He's 25 almost.

And Bailey at 24.

I was 22 when we had Parker.

But I'm like, even then, it's like, even if I want to have a kid. Okay, cool. Like, yeah, that's not going to happen anytime soon. Sorry, guys. Not being grandparents right now.

Yeah, please. I was like, please don't do it.

No, I'm very clear on that. That's not happening.

But you'd be so you.

I'll probably have a child before Parker. No, not in that way.

I have it. I have a 2 year old. Please don't make me a grandma. I have a 2 year old.

It'd be a milk and a guilt.

A milk and a guilt. That's sweet.

That's why dad wants me to have one. I just want to kill. It's like I want to be.

All right. So like, you're.

No, but there's one step before that.

Okay.

Like, you can't have kids if you're not married. Like, I'm sorry. I've learned. I've learned from my parents. So, like, it's like, you got to get married. You have to have a foundation, you have to have a solid setting relationship before you introduce kids. Or you're just gonna them up and you them up either way. But it's the degree of which you them up. So. Yeah, yeah, true. I'm like, I'm not trying to fuck them up. I want to them up in the sense of like, they're like high producers and high performers and they think dad's a lunatic. Sure. Cool. Like, yeah, you better be a D1 athlete. But after that, like, it's like, but no, like, I want to be financially set. I want to be able to like move out of my one bedroom apartment, end up getting like a condo or something. But like, I realized, like, that was the thing because if not, then I'm just like holding on and I'm like, don't lose this. My apartment's so cool. Like, everything, it's like, what's the next purpose? Well, the next purpose is that, yeah, I want to be a husband, then I want to be a father. And I want to start entering into that phase. Because that phase is like, honestly, I'll probably have a kid before 20. Like, I'll probably have a kid by 27.

But think about too, like, the more.

Two years from now, the more you.

Put yourself out there and make that commitment to yourself. I'm ignoring that comment. The more you put your, like, think about the people you'll impact too. Right? So like, whenever I'm feeling like, kind of stuck, I'm like, who am I not impacting? Like, for me to say, like, no, I'm good here. Then like, there's somebody that's like, hey, wait, wait, we're waiting for you. You know, so it's, it. Success comes with like, helping people too and creating a family and abundance for yourself as well.

Yeah, I was always worried, like, oh, that's gonna. That lifestyle. And I told myself the story that that lifestyle would build me out of my current, my current business. But it's not.

So many people have a story about people that want to make money. They're like, oh, you greedy. And you're like, but let me tell you who I impacted and you didn't let me tell you who I helped and who I didn't. Who you didn't Let me tell you who I employed. And you had a story about people that make money that are greedy assholes. So like, for me, like, with my hairstyles all the time, I'm like, hey, why do you want to take this training? And I'm like, if you say it's because I want to make more money. I'm going to say, good for you. I'm like, you should want to make more money. This isn't a hobby. You should be running a business. I'm like, and the better life you can provide for your kids, family, and other people in your community, the more impact you'll have, the more refined version of you you'll become.

Yeah.

So I always tell people, young people, like, especially, like I said, like, I coach a lot. I'm like, now like, old in the hair world. And I always tell them, I'm like, it's okay to want to make money for you. Like, it's okay. But understand, like, in doing so, you're going to have impact.

You look gorgeous right now.

Yeah, I'm just glowing.

You're a hot gilf in two years. Like, that guilt's with me. That guilt is with me.

No, that. Yeah.

I mean, but like, just to put it in my perspective, like, every time I feel like I'm playing small, I'm like, who am I not impacting?

Yeah.

And yeah, like, my family's very important for me. Like, I'm like, I want to make sure, like, I'm balance and hanging, putting deposits into my kids lives too. But also I'm like, okay, that pushes me to keep going with all the. And the money and the houses and the cars and everything. I'm like, okay, this is great. And I. And this is results of what we. The work we've put in. But I'm like, there's. There's always a next level. Yeah, there's just. There just always is people that are like gazillionaires, they're probably super bored. And you want to know why? Because time doesn't equal. It doesn't equal necessarily happiness. In fact, if you have too much time, you might get depressed. Yeah. But it's. It should be like, hey, this life's. Yeah, this is a reward of the work you put in. But like, there's. There's no end to this game.

Yeah. Plus, when I feel like you want to go to the next level, you have to give yourself purpose outside of yourself.

Mm.

I was telling dad the other day, I go, I go, I go, here's the thing. You have to give yourself more time and space this year because you're not gonna see things to take you to the next level. You're too. You're too busy to see any. Any other opportunities.

Yeah.

And so sometimes we, you know, we make it to this level where we're Like, I did it. I made it to my impossible ceiling. And you're like, I'm good. And. And the problem is then you don't really see the big picture. So, like, for you, I think your big goal this year is, like, if you create more time and space, I believe that you will see opportunities.

Agreed.

Yeah.

So what are two of the things that you need to do to get to 10k or to get to 20k a month?

I have to be posting consistently on YouTube TikTok and have my podcast up and do weekly webinars. Basically, just do everything. And we were talking about in the council event. So, like, have my podcast weekly, have a weekly webinar, have the YouTube channel up and running. I still think YouTube's gonna be better than the podcast, but fuck it, I'm just gonna do it all and see what happens. And then, yeah, just be consistently posting. And then at that point, I need to be in events, which means, like, the Alabama, like, trip. Like, it's like those. Those opportunities I used to say no to because my brain was like, that's going to take me away from the comfortability of what I'm doing, which is like, working out, having, having fun. And I'm trying to be a little less, like, sexual intercourse, but, like, yeah, have sex, get paid, and, like, have. Have go get jacked. Like, yeah, that's what I would do. So, like, when you tell me, like, hey, do you want to come to Alabama and do that with me? I'm like, yes. But that's because I've grown out of, like, no. Like, I know even internally, I'm still like, dude, I don't want to. Because we're going there and then we're going to go to fight camp. Like, that's too long. Like, that's like five, six days. Like. Like, I don't want to do that shit. But I also know, like, if I don't, then fine, stay where you're at, bro. Like, that's cool.

Well, who are you going to meet? Like, who are you going to meet? You never know. Like, even, like, with Bailey, like, going to Nashville or different, these different, like, meet and greets in la. I'm like, you never know. You just keep doing it. Like, you're not. You're not just gonna one day get discovered, but you have to create connections. And all of a sudden your name comes up in a room because you're just thinking about people that are, like, really good networkers. You're like, how does everybody know, Keith? How does everybody know what's that one guy's name? I don't know. One of his buddies that just showed up to church yesterday. Mike. How does everybody know him? Because he just inserts himself, like, everywhere. He's like, has zero fucks given. He's just like, there. You're like, someone's creepy. You're like, oh, hey.

Yep, everybody knows them.

But it's just adopting that. Like, yeah, Like, I'm. It's adopting a different mindset and belief system. Then it's like, yeah, I should go to that event because I've earned that right to do it. It's not like, oh, I'm Dad's little assistant.

Yeah. Yeah. Like, there's a reason you're in the room.

I've gotten over the hurdle that y' all have been telling me. I swear to God. We had the same conversation with myself that I feel like we keep having on every podcast. Bailey. But it was more so with me on being able to, like, jump over this hurdle of leaning in. And I feel like at this point, like, I'm like, it. I just, like, I hit that point. I think around, like, it was honestly New Year's. I had the New Year's moment again. Like, it was like, after Christmas and. And just not. Not having, like, the space that I wanted even when you guys left, like, to, like, just have fun and, like, go do it just didn't work out the way I wanted it to at all. And I realized, like, nothing bad against anyone, but I just. I feel like I've outgrown. Like, I kind of like being by myself. Like, I'm just kind of outgrown. Old friends, stuff like that. And so, like, I hit that moment in New Year's where it was like, okay, you gonna go all in?

And did you feel isolated?

Whenever I was stacking prayer stacking at three in the morning on that couch when no one was home. Oh, nice. Yeah. So I was alone.

But, like, if it can do, like, knowing that you need to go to the next level, crazy it. All of a sudden, you feel very alone and isolated. And, like, you feel like when you need that support the most, it's when you have to, like, bring it out of yourself.

Yeah. It's important when you don't need it.

Yeah. Like, some of the darkest times I've had, like, literally, I've been on the floor crying, going, why am I doing this? I'm being selfish. What am I doing? Feel so alone. And then it's in that alone time that I almost, like, hear my higher voice. It's like, I got you.

Yeah.

And I'm like, then let's go.

Because you have to trust that shit. That's what actually gets you to move. Because it's not about the moves you make in front of everyone or in front of your parents. All my guys. I don't give a shit what you do on the call, bro. You can tell me a bunch of lies if you want. Sound good? Great. What you do when you're by yourself wanting to go jack off again.

Yeah.

Like, we talk about that stuff a lot. Yeah.

Jack off or you're gonna crate.

Yeah.

Gonna waste your sperm in the toilet. Were you going to save that energy up and sexually transmute it if you taught them sexual transmutation?

Oh, Lord, no.

Laws of success. Napoleon Hill. It's about how to take sexual energy now. It's why sexually frustrated men.

You about that. I'm talking about you about something else.

Sexual transmutation is literally the science of taking sex energy and putting it into creation. That's why, like, just blowing your load into toilet, like, you're losing energy. You're, like, putting your job but no return. When I have, like, sex with mom, I put it out and it comes back. Like, there's an energy that comes back from that, but just like, eh. So with Danny and Bailey, you and Tay, like, when there's an energy exchange when these young men are there, like, that's tough, though, with too many bodies. It's like, it should be kind of crazy. But getting these young guys to focus that energy, study it. Napoleon Hill. Laws of success. And the principle of sexual transmutation is that way.

Is that why there's. There's. It seems like we were talking about.

Because I was sexually frustrated for so long. Well, we were just transmuted that.

There probably is something to that.

Like the pathway to success. Just don't get.

I'm always surprised, like, some of the.

Transmute that be obsessed with making money, like just your business every day. That's.

I'm no. I'm confident that that bust in that happens. And that's why, like, men lose a lot of wives because they make love to their businesses. They put all that energy into their business.

Blown every day about your business.

But it's like, here's the thing, too.

Like, a lot of guys do it.

Just smack the ass of that business.

A lot of. I guarantee you just dirty.

Oh, my gosh.

Oh, my God.

You put those implants in that business.

That's right. Smack. All right. So, bae, we haven't gotten to a Conclusion here.

Dude. You were not distracted by. No, no, no.

You're getting distracted by your cell phone in the middle of the show.

What do you know you need to do? What do you know you need to do, exactly?

Distraction on your phone during the show.

People are faggots.

And before you cancel me, I am a.

Weirdest ever.

So what do you know? What do you know you need to do? What are you going to do if you know that the. Maybe you shouldn't be at the studio anymore.

I just really wanted to slap everyone.

Here's your. What's your plan about. Listen, I'm being serious right now. So if you feel like you've outgrown it, it's scary. If you're like, you just go to Thomas tomorrow and you're like, hey, I've decided. I. I quit. But if you come up with a plan for yourself and you start doing content weekly and you create whatever it is you want to do, you come up with a plan. It's less scary to be like, hey, I'm gonna. I'm moving on. But it's scary to be like, oh.

Hand raising strategy during the show.

I know. What is it? Do you need a talking sticker?

No, I like it. It's good.

Just hand them a baby.

Here's the baton.

No. I just find we're a bunch of type A powerful people, and we tend to interrupt each other a lot. So I just think the hand system works a lot easier. I like it, but pay me five grand. I'll manage her better. Just saying. I'm just saying.

Him and Danny were saying this. They were like, give us five grand.

We'Ll manage your it. I'll take the money.

I'll try to manage your business. I'm excited to see this. Yes.

Why don't you pay me one month? She'll get more coverage.

Wait, wait. You're paying Thomas five grand, Two of which goes to me anyway. So why don't you just give me the two grand and then the other three grand we can spend on the music and we'll make a whole plan, and then.

Okay, so I have a slot.

This is actually part of my plan. Okay.

Serious. Okay, good. Okay, good. I still want money.

I sent here what you're gonna do? What are you gonna do?

I, this week on Sunday, had made a plan for my weekly goal. Cause Parker inspired that. And you made a plan with what I made. You aren't listening, you caffeine whore.

All you've said is I've made a plan.

I made a plan. For music and. Sorry, it's really hard to sit still for this long, and I'm just kind of freaking out because it's just too much sitting. But I made a plan to do three posts this Tik Tok and three posts on Instagram, and basically that's my plan for this week.

And are those all music?

No, for Instagram, two are music. One is not music. One is fashion or hair or whatever. One is just like.

Oh, so you're taking ideas.

No, one is. Two are basically singing rails. One is a normal post of, like, cute outfit and like, me looking sexy. And then on Tik Tok, all are music.

I resound my.

You resign from her manager?

Yep.

Why?

Because I know for a fact that I'll try to manage you, but you'll do the opposite.

You know what? She's actually gonna cost you money if you try to manage her. So let's be real yourself short. Just get two more sales.

No trick to get you to be. To work for me again.

Okay.

You want to manage your sister?

Let me ask you. No, no, we're not doing that again. Jesus Christ. Oh, my gosh.

All of a sudden, you don't have time for anything else, driving BAE around.

Okay, let me ask you this then. Let me ask you a question the parents won't ask you. So what would happen if this reality was true? You got taken out of the studio from the studio. You no longer got paid two grand. You got paid per post, and you got paid, like, an actual influencer, and you got paid, like a singer, which is you get paid to post 20 bucks a post or 50 bucks a post. And you can make your 2K back by simply posting every day. So you want to make more money, post more. Because that's how you're going to build the business anyways.

So I. I think it's. You got to do everything. It's like, start with posting more, but it's like, literally, you have to. We're in a game where it's like the wild, wild west right now. Like I always say, people that made money on social media when they made money on social media when it was easy, it's not that way anymore. There's no people, like, launching. And all of a sudden they get to, like, a million followers. And if, like, there's like, a zillion million following accounts. Yeah, like, people.

That's like, having a million followers is not that.

Yeah, having a million followers is, like, not a big thing anymore. I find them all the time, these, like, fashion bloggers. I'M like, whoa, million followers.

What?

What did you create? They have some skin care, some la la la. And I'm like, that's awesome. What's cool about it is it just shows how much success that people can have. Still micro, right? What, What?

Micro. Niches.

Niche.

Micro.

But it's just saying like, you don't have to be a Taylor Swift to be making a lot of money. Yeah, I know, right? So I think that's, that's what people are getting confused with. It's like, no, you can still have that success and you're going to have, you're going to be a celebrity in your own world. I have like 80,000 followers. But in the hair extension world, in the niche, in the niche, like I'm hair famous, right. So it. And I make great money. So it's crazy what you can do if you just kind of like, you got to like let go that ego a little bit and just go on more of like an entrepreneurial path and do what you do doing it, which is music. Music's your tool.

So what are you committed to doing?

Posting.

And how's that different than what you've been doing?

Because I haven't been consistent, but now I'm going to be consistent.

What does consistent look like?

Posting every day or every other day? At least. Or at least four times a week? Because yeah, dude, it's crazy.

You get paid to build your business, bro. What? I was like, you get paid to build your business? I got thrown to the dumpster, bro. You take advantage.

Yeah. You had a couple years.

No, I did.

Of course I did.

Of course.

Yeah.

I'm not taking away from that at all. That's just a nice little clicker.

Did have a nine month sabbatical. He was the youngest professor to ever take a sabbatical.

I did take, I did take nine months of literally my schedule was wake up at 4:30. Then this was because I had to, not because I wanted to.

4:30 in the morning.

Yes, because then I had to be. No, because I had to be at F45 at 5. And then I would work at F45, do four classes. Then I'd come home, get high, take a nap. Then I'd get up, then I'd go and yeah, this is when I was in my bedroom and I left like the warrior.

Did I find McDonald's and Kit Kats?

Yep. I worked at F45.

And what about the lady you rented an apartment for? That was like, that was dark times.

That sucked. That and I got Covid and The room was smaller than the.

Can you please tell Bailey you didn't have credit? You had no credit when you got that room?

Huh?

No.

Like how did you get that room?

No, did you have credit? We were talking about this the other day.

Cuz she was like, I can't go.

When you got that room. You didn't have credit. Like when you didn't have credit. Wait. Oh, maybe I was saying.

Yeah. Cuz she was like, I can't. She's like making all these big plans and she's like. I'm like, well then move out next year if you want to be an adult.

No, you said move out now.

I said, Danny's 18, move out now. I was like, she's like, I can't.

Cuz I don't could move out now.

And I go, she goes, I can't. And I go, you think I'm going to like turn you into the cops? I'm like, if you want to go move out and this is your path and go do it. And then she goes, well, I don't have any credit. And I was like, I was like.

I move out right now.

I don't have credit to get a place that's.

Well, she would be in a really janky, scary room or she has her beautiful room here in this mansion. So she's kind of like. The reality is she's like, why would I go spend $1,000 on this janky room with some grouchy old lady that doesn't let me use her kitchen, Whose.

Dog attacks me every time I come in the damn place.

Oh, the first time you finally go out and pay for a room. I've never seen you at our house more. I was like, don't you want.

Do you not like your.

Yeah, do I want like I don't see the family for like three months. And then I get my appreciation though, right? Oh, I came to this house. It wasn't even this house.

Yeah. I was like, oh, you don't want to go to your. Yeah. And. But I was like, you don't want to go home? And you're like, no.

Like no, no thank you. What? I would leave your guys house, no joke, at like 9:45 in the morning. I was like, okay.

You were like making your chicken breast here. And I was like, what are you.

Those are the days. That's why I got so funny.

You were paying for a room and that's when we saw you the most.

Yes. And it was until I could afford a place I actually enjoyed until I started to actually not be here all the time. And yeah, that was. Dude, that's.

Life has a fun way of teaching us.

I think everyone just goes through that. I think you can try to get your kids to avoid it, but I think at the end of the day, they're going to fall on their ass anyway.

So everybody's got their moment.

I just wanted to leave a nice, gentle, like, cushion for when you guys fall on your face. Like just a soft pillow.

See?

But that's where I think the rule is. Is you up, you can come home. You fall on your face, you can come home. As long as that one rule is, you can come home.

That's nice.

That's true. Doesn't matter now. Let her fall on her face all she wants because, like, I can come home. So, like, you're still providing what the parent is supposed to provide, which is security and safety and loving home to come home to. If I go out and I try to do my own thing. No, I'm not pre framing myself.

There's a balance. No, but there's a balance of sometimes.

Where you, like, you have to kind of, like, play.

You're like, I'm just playing seeds to move back in in June.

There's a balance where you. Instead of training. We talked about this on a few podcasts ago. Like, you can't save your kids. At some point, you kind of have to cut them off. If you're 24 and you're still eating Kit Kats and McDonald's and smoking weed all day when working at F45, I'm gonna be like, we got a problem.

That's how a lot of rich kids are.

That's our. It's an Orange county thing, kid not.

Getting, like, a trust fund or any shit. Thing like that.

Oh, my God. That, you know of trust fund right now. What are you talking about?

I know. I'm kidding.

I'm making a joke and being a jokester.

All right, so you're gonna. You're gonna do some more posts. We're gonna see if that happens. That'll be great. You're moving out with Danny in, like, two months out of exciting.

No, I'm moving out when I'm 18.

He.

He. He needs his year to figure out his business, and I need my year to figure out my business stuff. And then, then we're good.

Okay.

Because I'm putting up a credit card.

Well, I can't until I'm 18.

I'm not talking about you.

Oh, him.

Oh, that's smart.

Yeah, you guys should Start setting yourself up smart. Yeah.

If you're a team, act like one. And he's got a head start on you.

Maybe you should start practicing doing laundry.

I did that enough in treatment. Thank you.

Oh, are you going to be the breadwinner or is it going to be 50? 50? How does this work? Work?

Like breadwinner means like, what again?

It means you pay for all the bills.

Do you pay for the bills?

Oh, no, we're 50. 50ing it.

Oh, okay. Modern relationship. I like it.

Well done.

I'm definitely traditional masculinity now. It's way easy.

You are toxic.

It's way easier, bro.

I like to do, like, 60. 40.

I think it's like, I'm fine with.

5050 because that just means, like, I want. Like, I want to buy him stuff, and he wants to buy me stuff. And like. Like, it's like, you know, like, I like giving gifts and he likes giving gifts. And like, he. He's actually grown to like giving gifts through being with me. Because I told him our first month, I was like, you're getting me flowers every. Every month we have an anniversary. And he was like, okay, all right.

Yeah, we did it.

We accomplished episode two, and we got absolutely nowhere, which is things are going to continue. Exactly.

All these two on social media, we have Bailey D. White and Bailey D. Life coach Parker.

I probably should change that. Yeah.

Well, no.

Yeah, come in.

That was an SEO search engine thing.

Okay.

Life coachore Parker.

Anything Search tags here along with this.

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