Sexy Screenshots | Date Your Wife | Ep 032

Hey, everybody, this is your boy, Gary J. White, the CEO of Wake up Warrior and the CEO of DKW Styling. Today we are here at the date your wife podcast. My wife is not saying anything because she's busy Instagramming this episode, which I don't even know which episode number this is. It is a lot of numbers. Number 32.

I could be wrong.

And our topic today is sexuality. You didn't even say anything about that. Is it sex today?

It is sex. I think it's 32 and I'm pretty sure the topic is sex. Because last week was communication.

That's right. And I kept trying to make it. I kept trying to make it.

That's next week.

So we are on to my favorite topic finally.

Yeah.

All right. So, well, before we get to my favorite topic of all topics, which is the topic of sex, why is it your favorite topic? I don't know. I think it's because it's the one that I think the most guys want to hear.

Do you think that really every guy, like all sorts.

There's no one guy, not one guy on the planet doesn't want to hear this topic?

No.

No, not one.

That doesn't matter. Like every guy.

Every guy.

Is there an age range? I think there's, there's gotta be.

Is there an age range? I mean, 93. Probably doesn't care about this, right? Probably not. Probably doesn't care about. But everybody before everyone over 12, 20 to 50 or. No, over 12. A 12 year old boy probably shouldn't be listening to this, but he, you know, he'd be interested. So like, listen, here's the deal. We're going to start off with a little reminder about why we do this show. Right. This show itself is brought to you by myself and my wife who are both co producers and we are business partners. We also run our own company separate of one another. We have two children and my son, which gives us three children. We have the possibility of another child down the road. We shall see. But we are sitting in a game of chaos and creation. And so we put this show together to really empower individuals along the path of the warriors way. We have men all over the world living the warriors way to to having it all. Which you can learn more about by going to warriorbook.com we also have an entire world of women that are following this, which happen to be the wives and girlfriends of the men inside the warriors way and also in another place. Tell us about the other place where these women come from.

Well, we also have big Money stylist, which is the education for natural bearded rose, which is the hair extension system that I created. And we also have DKW selling, which is like my personal crew of Silas.

And you have a beautiful new salon.

I do.

Tell us about this new salon that you.

I want another baby. I've got a new baby and I want another baby.

So the new salon has. You want to have a baby. Does this mean that you want to have sex at the new salon tonight?

No.

Do you think anyone's had sex at the salon?

There's too many windows in the back.

But do you think someone has?

Nobody has had sex at the salon.

Yeah, well, you and I have not had sex at the salon. Do you think any of our team members have done this?

I guarantee they have not.

Have not.

I guarantee they have not. There's nowhere to have sex in my salon. It's literally like window to window on pch. That would be.

That would be a little interesting.

I mean, it'd be a little interesting.

For them if they did in the shadows. You could probably pull it off. But would you ever have sex with me on a chair in the salon? Although if your clients are listening, that's going to be completely awkward. Right. It's like, which chair did you have sex on?

Exactly.

So at this time, you're verifying sex on every chair. Oh, wow. Code word.

You can last code.

I couldn't last that many chairs. How many chairs do you have?

I have eight chairs.

I could not last eight chairs. Well, it would depend. I know. Was I was I was I, was I fully complete? At each chair? At each chair. Am I complete, yes or no?

No. Well, we. We could bounce then if that's a case around eight chairs, we could definitely.

Make it to eight chairs. I could not complete the eight circuit. I'm not an eight second cowboy.

I think we could complete two to three.

Two to three chairs we could complete.

That's impressive as a married couple.

Yeah, but eight chairs is like superhuman.

That's going to require some kind of medication. I don't know.

I don't know. I don't even know if that's possible. I think you'd have to start feeling faking it at that point. I think it's a good topic. Let's talk about that. All right, here we go. Here we go. Yes. That was a segue. We had no idea where the we were gonna go with this show today, but we have just encountered a segue.

Okay.

All right, so here's the topic. The topic is faking it in sex. You know what? There's like, a microphone covering your face. Talk about this from a girl's perspective of fake.

Every girl fakes it.

Every girl fakes it.

Every girl fakes it.

Do you think there's a woman on the planet who doesn't fake it? Like, she just flat out is like, that was horrible.

I'm doesn't fake it. She's like the guy that says he never masturbates.

Like, okay, so she's a liar.

They're like, every girl.

Every girl fakes it. Okay, tell me about this faking, though.

Do you know what? Like, it's not like we didn't enjoy it, but we get to this point, like, we're just like, I don't fucking care. Like, you can have an orgasm. I'm putting on a good show. It's like, it gets to the point where you're just like. It's just like. You kind of like, it's not gonna happen tonight, babe. But it doesn't. But. And guys have all this pressure. I feel like there is some pressure, even for you. Sometimes I'm like, worry about yourself. Like, I don't even care. Like, just worry about yourself.

We need a code word or a code pinch.

Oh, here's how girls fake it. Because they're either tired or they've been going too long.

Or they've been going too long.

Between the two, they're like, oh, my God, we've been going so long. And I'm just so numb down there. I just.

Oh, it's a numb. It's a numb thing. You start to feel numb down there.

And there's a lot of pressure. It's numb. And you're like. You're not really numb. There's a lot of pressure.

Is there numb? Really? Is it just from too much friction?

There's numb sometimes.

Okay, so there's a lot of friction. There's numb. But there's also this pressure idea, which has you fake it. Talk to me a little bit more about this female pressure.

No, no, no. I think that it gets to this place where, like, sometimes I feel like you're always worrying about me, that I'm like, oh, my God. Like, I just. There. It's just a lot of pressure. And so I'm like, hey, just. And then you will come. You will go. And then. And then it takes the pressure off. And then I go. Because I'm like, God, because of pressure.

And then I go again.

Yeah, because sometimes. Let's be real.

Sometimes I do not go again. But Sometimes I do go again. All right, so here's the deal though.

The faking game. Sometimes girls fake it cause they're tired and like they want their man to like kind of feel maybe like the man. So they're like, yeah, babe, I win.

Do you think porn has completely twisted the thought of orgasms, like, for men and women and just like the exposure, I mean, across the body. We were watching Game of Thrones as like basically a porn on there. Like, I mean, do you think that like the perception that a woman is just. Or. I mean, we have someone we know, we have some people we know, we're not going to say their names, but in their relationship prior to the divorce, they had been together for 13 years. The woman had never had an orgasm.

Weird.

13 years, had never had an orgasm.

You know what though?

She didn't even know she wasn't having an orgasm.

Here's the thing, like, you got to be a little sick, selfish in bed. I'm just gonna say it. Like, you gotta go after what you want. Like, if she didn't have an orgasm, it's her fault.

Alright, I agree.

I'm just gonna put that out there. Like, even at the dullest sexual encounters, like, if I want it, I'm gonna get it. So you gotta be like, focus. You gotta go for the goal.

Go for the goal. I like this.

You just treat it like a sport, ladies. And you get in there and you.

You get in there. No, actually, the guy gets in there. You get on there.

You get on there.

Get on there. I get in there.

And then, and then you just, you just, you know, you accomplish your goal.

The funny part is you haven't been drinking at all and you're already funny as tonight. So this is good. Okay, so like here, here's a little bit you. I get it. Let's back up from this though, a little bit about this entire, like soccer slash, like, you know, just go for the goals. Like this pole vaulting tournament you're talking about over here. So there's this.

You know what, though? Sometimes it's been like so many times where I'm like, I haven't gotten to enjoy this as much as I want to. And I'm like, I like make a goal in my mind. I'm like, I'm committed, I'm gonna do this.

You mean I've gone so many times.

Yeah, and like.

And then you haven't gone.

Yeah, and I haven't.

And I'm like.

But usually, but usually, like.

And then you double down. Like, what is it that shifts in your mind between, I'm gonna fake it tonight or I'm gonna go for the goal.

It's like a sleepiness versus a committed. Are you sleepy or are you committed?

Are you sleepy or committed? Okay, so how do you know the difference as a woman, though, between, like, when you're gonna pull the trigger to fake it? I don't think you do. You have. Do you start off with the idea that I'm gonna fake it? Is this a thought that comes in your mind, I'm gonna fake having an orgasm? No.

I always go into sex. Like, even if it's a quickie, like, all right, yeah, you're open. You're open every time I entertain this idea. Yeah. And sometimes I don't. Girls need, like, the foreplay and the warmup. And sometimes I'm like, I don't want the warmup and.

But this is a disadvantage to you.

No, because I focus without the warmup. I'm going for the goal. But.

But do you not focus with the warmup? Are you unfocused in the warm?

Let me just tell you, okay, guys, if you're listening to this show, Let me just.

Of course they're listening to the show. It's a sex week. They're listening.

They love it.

They love it.

It's a favorite topic. So if there's a warmup, we're focusing like, holy shit. Not to go. If there's not a warmup, we're focusing like, I'm gonna go after it. I'm gonna get it. So.

So is there ever a time where the warm up goes too long?

The warm up? Here's the thing, okay? Women, like, will shut men down and be like, no, no, no. Because it's like this. You kind of have to submit to get the warm up. Like, Like. Like a lot of times women will be like.

You mean women are saying, no, no, no to the warmup?

Well, just like, it, like, the sex. If we get warmed up, it's gonna happen.

Okay.

But girls will be like, I'm tired. They won't submit to the warmup.

Yes.

And so then it's like. It's like, just like a quick. But I think that's why guys, like, Guys like the warm up, because it's like the girl just submits. Like, if you do. If you commit to the warm up, but you can't go in too aggressive and try and warm her up, and.

Then she's like, I messed up.

Then it goes creepy. Then you're like, no, this. This is gross. Let's just have a quickie. So you gotta, like. You gotta really seduce.

Okay, so I've. I've had conversations here in the past month on this topic.

I wanna hear, like, the guy's perspective. I don't know. I'm just giving you guys the girl's perspective. And I might be very similar to girls. Some. Some women. I might be totally different. I don't really know.

Do you know that? So here's the deal. I have faked it.

You have not.

I have faked it, you asshole.

You have. Why would you fake it? You're a dude.

Because I'd already gone twice.

Oh, my God. You're just selfishly faking it. You're selfishly faking it. And the only reason actually, I've caught you.

You did. You caught me faking it on the second round?

Yeah, because I'll be like. I'll be like, did you go? And you'll be like, no. And I'm like, it's like a slip and slide down here. You definitely went like, don't lie to me, you asshole. But you'll say no. I don't. Why do you say no?

I'll say no because I don't want you to quit. I'm like, no, I want to go forever. Another round. Let's keep going.

Just tell me, because it takes the pressure off me, and then I'm really going for the goal.

Oh, I know. But sometimes I don't want to distract your focus. When I want to go for a second goal.

I don't know.

Sometimes I want to go for a second goal. So I have to elude the first goal. No, that didn't score. I'm going to score a second time. All right, so there's a deal, though.

All right, I.

It's been very, very, very, very few times. I can count on one hand the number of times. Probably actually can count on three fingers. Maybe two fingers at a time. That's happening.

I always know you don't. Can. You know. Okay, so when you're faking. Yeah. Do you know if a girl fakes it when.

You know what? Here's the deal. If. If we're. If I'm on top, do you care? Do I hear no? I don't care if you fake it. I actually like it when you do that.

I was gonna say, I think you.

I enjoy it more when you do.

Yeah. Cause you feel like.

I feel like we both scored.

Effort.

I feel like we both scored.

We both win.

You're like, goal. And I'm like, yes, and like, at a certain level, like, for example, oral or, you know, if I'm all up in there, like, I can. I mean, I can tell particularly when I'm on top. I can tell when you're going. Like, you can't physically change it or cheat it.

I don't know if I want people to know this much about me.

Okay, I'll stop at this point on this. Here's what I would tell you, though. Like, most of the time, like, I can tell. Well, you said that you can tell when I'm going.

I can.

Okay, Well, I can tell when you're going.

Well, that's good.

So what I'm saying is that some. But I can't tell when you're going sometimes. So, like, I'm there. There's an ability there to fake this.

I don't know if this is. This is. This is a real show. But I don't know for guys, if there's like. Is there long and short ones for guys? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Just one punch.

No. If a guy. If a guy hasn't gone for a while, then like. If he hasn't gone for like, say like a week or five days and it's just built up and he has had no masturbation, then what happens? He has a bigger shot. And the bigger the shot, the more intense the orgasm. Yeah. Like, it's a very. It's a much more intense orgasm if you've got a big, big. If you got a big payload that's about to be delivered.

But does it feel.

Yes, it feels totally different. It's more intense. It's more intense with. For a guy. When.

You know what.

When you've got a bigger payload.

You know what's so funny? I think that I prefer the bigger payload.

Really?

For myself.

Really?

No, not for you. So let me rephrase. Hold on.

I was like, what? Does it feel different? I didn't know. I mean, I don't know how it feels. I know how it feels for me. I don't know how it feels for you.

I realized that I. Oh, God. I realized that. I think I purposely don't go sometimes. Cause I really like.

You like the build up?

I want the buildup.

Yeah, you want the payload.

I love the payload.

You want the big payday.

It's more like. I'm just like. It's like a control thing with myself.

It's like a reverse fake. It's like a holdout. Yeah, you're, like, picking.

Cause I'm like. I can have, like. I'm like, this with shoes. Like, I'm like, I can have a bunch of shitty pairs of shoes or I can have, like, a couple really good pairs of shoes.

I like it. I like it when you hold out.

What do you mean?

Like, I like it when you, like, you don't go right away. Like, if I had as many powers as you did to not go right away, that would be a good thing. That's why I had to learn that I had a superpower to go twice. So once I figured that out, I was good to go. So here's the deal, though.

The whole. What's the premise of this?

No, no, no, we're coming back to it. We talked about faking, right? But faking also led to this other conversation of just this. This awkwardness at times inside of intimacy, particularly when you've been married for a while. Getting back into the conversation of sex, like, just being able to make it happen. And so, like, we were talking about the warm up. I have found that many, many men have just skipped.

I got a good conversation.

Okay, go, go, go. You're very inspired by this.

Okay. Because I was like, there was something that we were doing last week that I was like, this would be good for sex week.

Okay, so were we having sex when you were thinking about this?

No, I was ironing.

Yes, you were. Continue down this path. Let's go. I know. Tell them about.

I don't own an iron board.

You were ironing on a bookshelf.

I was impressed. I had an iron.

Yes. I can't believe you had an iron either. All right, share this, because I just pulled up all the images in my mind. I will say nothing about the images, but they're all in my mind.

I just think if you don't give your guy screenshots, he will find his own screenshots. So that's all I'm gonna say.

No, you have to explain what a screenshot.

Screenshot like. But. But I will say I didn't do this in the past. Okay.

So, okay, you didn't do screenshots for probably. We've been married 15 years. You haven't done screenshots for 13. 12 years. 12 years.

That's a lie.

You started screenshotting about. No, probably three years ago. Four years ago.

Good. It's good. Four years.

Okay, cool. Explain what this is, though, to the women so they understand what the screenshot is now. Explain why it matters to a guy.

Before you're married or. I don't know, if you're just getting ready in your bathroom. I don't get ready with clothes on. I usually just have. It's hot. I'm blow drying my hair. I got a ton of extensions in. I usually just wear underwear. I just. I. It's weird. I don't do it naked. I just. I always like to have underwear on. So the other day, I was like, I need to iron. This thing is wrinkly. I don't. I was like, do I have an iron? I had an iron.

Yes, you did.

I didn't have an ironing board, so I pulled out a random table, and I knew Garrett was gonna be coming in. And I was like, ooh, should I get dressed? And I was like, no, I don't think this is hot. So just ironing.

So you stood there naked.

Like, it's not like. I was, like, acting like I had to iron.

You literally had to iron, but you went out of your way to do it in a location that would allow me to see when we were in.

A shitty place in our relationship, when I knew you were coming home or if I was in my closet. Chang. I'd be like, fuck, he's coming. Oh, my God, he's coming home. And I throw something on because I'm like, if he sees me naked, he's gonna want to have sex. And I was like, I don't want to have sex. I gotta finish whatever I'm doing. You know what I mean? But I will say, now, you take the screenshot. You don't, like, say, hey, do you wanna have sex? Or. You don't come at me. You don't say anything. You enjoy the view 90% of the time.

I don't even touch you.

You don't.

I just look.

And it felt safer to me. Yes. So I was like, listen, I'll give you a screenshot, but don't, like, don't ask.

Don't manhandle you don't, man.

Don't come, like. Because in the past, if I was, like, getting dressed and you would, like, come in, you'd be like, hey. And you'd always, like, go for an ass grab or something. I was like, good Lord. I gotta, like, take kids to school. I gotta, like, make lunches. I'm going to work. I got this. Like, if you fucking grab my ass, I'm gonna. I don't. I want to, like, knee you in the balls right now. That's just how I was feeling. And so. But then it was like, I think you earned. You're not earned. You learned the art of, like, holding back a little bit. And so then I felt safe and was more open to be like, oh, I think I look cute in a pair of underwear ironing a random whatever. So here you go. And I feel like it creates like content and spice in a marriage. And so I, I don't know. That's, that's. I wanted to share is like, if you don't create content for your guy, he's gonna be, he's gonna find content somewhere else. Whether you're on the beach and some other hot girl walks by or. And even that happens. Like men are men and like they're gonna see that hot ass walking on the beach. But you know what a good guy's gonna go back to, like, screenshot. I don't really know. I'm just saying that. But like, do you entertain it less if people give you screenshots?

Here are the facts.

The title of this show should be Screenshots.

Screen sex. Sexy screenshots.

Sexy screenshots.

Okay, so here's the deal. Like, literally Danielle would like cover, like, lights would be off, she would cover herself up, she would disappear from me. Like, and a lot of this, like, most of this was driven by my inability to act like anything but a 16 year old kid. Like, I would get like, if I saw her naked, I'd get an erection immediately. And then I was thinking, oh my God, she definitely wants to have sex right now. And I did.

I had like 20 other things going.

On in my mind and I didn't, I had no, I had no patience, like at all. So like, and I think it was because I gotten into this desperate place. I don't know, I had messed it up for a long time. So now what ends up happening? And back to the ironing. I came out of my, my man cave room and I was dressed and the doors were open and she was standing in our master bedroom and she has just her panties on and she's ironing, ironing her dress for the night. And I'm looking at her and the sun is pouring through her windows and shining off of her body. And I'm looking at her and literally I'm like, I'm like in my mind, I'm touching the side of the temple of my head and then I'm snapping pictures as fast as I can. I'm like. And then I slow it down and I take a boomy with my mind. I'm boomy mind. Then I take like a slow mo video.

Do you know, I don't know if girls take screenshots.

I don't know if girl. Well, we'll get to that in a second. Because guys take screenshots like crazy.

Actually, that's a lie. Girls take screenshots. Girls do take screenshots, but it's not what you think.

All right, well, you can share that in a second. So I take this. Here's why the screenshots matter, though. So now, like, Danielle sends me text me a picture of herself looking super sexy in swimsuits. She doesn't text me, like, naked photos or, you know, breast shots. It's like she text me like, super intense, like very sexy things. But then I put those images on my cell phone and they're on my. I keep a certain one on my lock one. Obviously it's not a super sexy one on my lock one, but on my unlock one, like it's a sexy one. And then on the COVID one is like something that's sensual for me and my wife together. And what I found is this. Like in my mind, if I get triggered by another woman who walks by on the beach in a thong, I'll get triggered. But my mind immediately goes to the preloaded content from my wife in the bedroom ironing clothes.

Does it really?

It does.

I mean, I said it, so I feel like you're just saying that because I said it.

I know. I'm not saying. Listen, I'm not saying it because you said it. It's exactly what happens if I have good content. For example, part of why I need to be able to see what's going on.

See a hot guy, like running or working out or anything.

Yes.

I can't. You can't even as a girl, like, you see him. But girls, at least for me, like, I literally. Because if I make eye contact with like a guy, a good looking guy or whatever, he immediately like makes eye contact back. And that's when I'm like, no. So I. So if I see some like a good looking guy, I immediately, I'm like you. I like, look the other way. I put like force fields up. Even if I'm like walking by him, I'm like, I just like, don't even like, like it's like he doesn't exist. But then it backfires because then I think they like think, oh, she didn't notice me. But I just don't entertain it. I just am like, no.

So what does that have to do with screenshot content?

Okay, so I was thinking girls, Girls take screenshot content, okay.

Of themselves and put them on Instagram.

Yep. No, no, I'm like, it's more of like A fantasy for a girl. Social screenshot of a guy. But you don't entertain that thought long enough. So then it's like, you're like, oh, it's like this mystery man that was just running by and maybe he just randomly takes me one night. Like that's how it happens.

So wait a sec, wait a second.

Okay, maybe just for me.

Okay, hold on, hold on a second.

Okay, so.

So wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Let me, let me, let me clarify this because I'm. You can't.

It's not even a clear figure. It's just like body with like a blurry face.

Okay, okay, so wait a second.

It's like a story. You're like, he's definitely a doctor and obviously a billionaire and he likes to run on PCH during this hour. So like, at least for me, I like to be creative. So, okay, so here, my screenshots create.

So, so you actually create a fantasy screenshot. You cut the head off the body.

Yes. I don't want to feel guilty. I don't feel guilty.

So here we are having a talk about. Guys need screenshots so they can think about their whys.

Girls want a fantasy. We got our million dollar man running down PCH with a super hot eight pack. Obviously.

And so you're not even thinking about your husband. You're thinking about mystery man.

Mystery man. But again, it's like he sparks the idea.

Okay, but then you. But then I enter the picture. So I'm okay if mystery man running down the road, who's a doctor here and whatever is the mystery man, that gets you revved up. Because at the end of the day, I'm the one that's scoring goals around here.

There you go. Everybody's scoring goals.

You can, you can be a fan in the stands all day long, but I'm the one holding trophies.

I, I get, I get screenshots of you too, but it's not like it's for me.

So your screenshots are literally fantasy movies. That's like all these romance novels of the girls with like the long haired dude with the, the shredded six pack. This is 50 Shades of Gray kind of stuff. So you do like, does that. Does, did anything in 50 shades of gray have you go, no, but that.

That movie, I, I think it launched a revolution off of a fantasy. Like that Christian Grey. He doesn't fucking, he doesn't exist. That's not real.

I think he's a real guy.

A super hot young guy with a helicopter and like a billion dollar company.

Just swoops Based on true events.

It's not. But you know what? That's where girls minds go. We're not like, ooh, that guy in a thong was so good. We're like, oh, I bet he has.

A yacht in a guy in a thong. We're not. If you have a guy walking down the street in a thong and he turns you on. I just don't what to do with this right now. Like, this thing has gone so left right now. Like, we would start this whole thing off talking.

Let's move on. This is a hard. This is a hard topic for me, guys.

You know what? Here's the deal, though. I'm totally good with it. So here's the thing, the principle. We bring it back to the Danielle Saravich is beautiful, which is women. You have to give your man a screenshot and screenshot. All this means is you got to give him a snapshot. He has to be able to get images of you naked and. Or sexual. Like, there's screenshots I take now, like when we have sex, sometimes there are moments where I'm like, oh, I'm gonna capture this.

I can always feel those.

And, like, I video it in my mind. I'm like. So that I can remember it, because when I get triggered sexually, I want to think about sex with you. I want to think about intimacy with you. Now, it appears. It appears that the flip side of this equation is that, you know, I mean, if I. If a woman was running down the beach and she. She had a beautiful body and a thong and I just cut her head, and I said, well, I'm just hanging out with some, you know, Italian goddess who happens to be just a mystery woman.

You feel less guilt.

I love how real you can entertain.

The idea all day long.

So guys cannot entertain, though. This is not okay for the guys to cut off the head and nose.

No, but, you know, I can entertain because you kind of think it's hot.

I think it's hilarious. I actually. I think it's funny. Like you're chasing Dr. No. Dr. No head.

Okay, let's wrap it up. Can we add some value? Where are we going?

We have added value. All right, so let's summarize today's show into two things. One, faking is not a problem. And I used to think it was a problem. So I would get offended if Danielle was faking not a problem.

I don't fake it a lot.

No, you don't anymore. But I have a feeling you just faked quite a bit back in the Day.

No, I actually did not.

No, you did not.

We weren't having sex that much, and so, like, I was all pint up.

So I was like, you have a payload.

This is gonna happen.

Okay, cool. So we have that. And then the second piece we have from today's show is this idea of delivering up screenshot content. And, gentlemen, it appears you're gonna have to find yourself a shredded man to run down your neighborhood that your wife can chop his head off under there in her mind as fantasy. But for guys and gals, listen, ladies, don't be stingy. Turn the lights on a little bit when you're having sex. Open up the blinds a little bit. Like, stop having sex under the covers of. I'm saying this to girls.

No, girls. No. All right, I'm gonna. You don't coach the girls. Girls, listen.

All right. Coach em up, babe. How are they gonna get content if it's pitch black? A glow stick? A neon green break stick from camping.

I'm sorry. If no one's home. As a girl, you walk around the house in underwear all the time.

Okay.

All the time.

All right.

I think so. At least I do.

Okay. And if they're not and they're walking around in snowsuits, they should probably stop that shit.

Yeah. Maybe start putting on.

Start wearing panties and walking around the house.

Yeah, just, like, walk around. Cause, like, I don't know, I'm. If you're getting ready or if you're like, I don't know. Just like.

You do know. Hold your stand on this one.

So my only stand is like. Like I said in the past, like, I'd be like, oh, Garrett's coming home. I don't want. He's gonna want, like, a quickie in the middle of the afternoon. I got so much shit to do. If the guys could, like, ease up a little bit and, like, just know, like, you're. You're probably not gonna get a quickie in the afternoon. If she decides to instigate it, good for you. If she doesn't enjoy the view, and that's it. And girls, go in with the mindset of, like, hey, if I want to walk around naked, great, but don't expect anything. And if you can come to this agreement, then he can enjoy, and she can feel sexy. And that's the thing is, like, I know when you're looking at me, whether I'm ironing or whatever, I'm like, even. I'm like, oh, I feel kind of hot. Look how domestic I look. You know? Whatever it is.

So and the key for the guys on this side is if you want the content to be laid out, you have to become hands off. Right. It's like you have to be hands on.

Oh, yeah, you can look, but it's fine.

But there has to be a bit of a suave side about it. It's like a little more like, hey, take some picture in your mind, use it as content and go forward. Go forward with your content and occasionally faking if necessary.

All right.

This is a good show.

Is it? Do you think people will like it?

Yeah, I'm confident.

Confident that men are gonna like this. I feel like I share too much.

You do? Do you feel a little embarrassed?

No, I just blush easy.

So we. We definitely are pushing off. I'll tell you right now, if you're listening to shows, we wrap this up. We are like no marriage show on the planet.

Well, and it's funny because I'll run into people or I'll see people at work or whatever, and they smile and they'll be like, oh, I love the one. We're little. And I'm like, oh, God, you know, everything. But like, that's why we're doing this podcast is we're like sharing content and we're just being real. And it's like, yes, it's just what it is. And so I forget that people actually watch and listen. And then they'll see me like, that was so funny. And I'll be like, oh, I'm kind of embarrassed. But then I'm like, nah, that's this. This is who I am.

So do you know what I was informed on these podcasts? People listen to the Schillers people. At least a handful of people I talked to the last couple days, they listen to the show and then there are certain moments where they go back and they watch the show@dateyourwifenow.com they watch it on video because they want to see the faces of you and I during certain scenes because they can imagine what we look like, like the laughing, et cetera. So actually go back on specific points during certain topics on the show and they'll watch the video version.

Well, and I will say, for those of you, like, it's. We do an episode every week. They're usually like 30 to 45 minutes, and it's a lot of content. So for me, what I do with podcasts is I actually download the little podcast app onto my phone and then I speed listen in my car. It's like a 45 minute show can be listened to in like two times speed and in probably 10, 15 minutes. So it's so funny. Cause I even listen to our own podcast as well as some others, and I just listen when I walk or jog or on my car. And it's like I feel like I'm consuming so much. So if you don't have the podcast app on your phone, you can download that and listen to three Speed. Funny fact.

Funny fact. Go.

When I went to watch this on video, I was like, oh my. I was like, oh my God.

It felt like we talked so slow.

I felt like we were just riding the short bus. I was like, why are you like, okay, too far. I retract that statement. But really, I was like, why are we talking so slow?

But anyways, I totally get it.

Speed.

Listen on and ruin how. Ruin the show for yourself ever listening to us real speed. You'll think that we slowed way down and we also smoked weed before the show. All right, thank you so much for being here. A couple reminders here in this show again for all the show notes, tips and tricks. Oh, my God. You will. Let me get them in sequence here. Dateyourwifenow.com and for all the ladies in the hair game, give it to them.

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