The Diabolical AND The Divine: Two Sides of One | Date Your Wife | Ep 042

Hi, guys. Hi, Instagram.

Hello, my friends. It's your boy, Garrett J. White, the founder of Wake Up Warrior and CEO of DKW Styling. I am here today with my beautiful wife on the date your wife podcast, and we've both worn white shirts to commiserate and celebrate our last name.

Yeah.

Which is white. I have gray pants on. What color are your pants?

Mine are burnt.

You need to talk into the microphone because we've had problems with you not doing that. I do.

Burnt orange corduroys.

Burnt orange corduroys.

I don't know if you call it burnt orange or like, what is this color?

What is this color?

Let's see.

I don't know. Are you literally. You're showing it in the camera. Okay, well, that is burnt orange. You need to talk right into the microphone. And I think I may need to adjust something. Hold on. Keep talking.

Can you guys hear me?

Yeah.

Well, nobody say yes if you can hear me.

Say yes if you can hear me. Even listening to on demand podcasts that we're shooting and you're not actually here.

Say yes in your car now. Ready? 1, 2, 3. Yes. Say yes.

Yes.

No, not that kind of yes, honey.

Yes.

No, stop it. All right, let's get going. What's our topic for today?

You know where that's going after that?

If you ever say yes like that during that time, I'll be like, oh, the demons are out. Abort quickly.

Well, we're gonna actually. Our topic today is simple. It's actually driven by our Halloween photo shoot. Tell em about our Halloween photo shoot. You know what?

It's. I. I have a blog, it's called dkwsading.com and I love fashion, I love hair, I love.

I love your husband.

My husband. But I've been doing photos forever, and I finally drug Garrett into it because we started this podcast almost a year ago. If you cannot believe it, it's actually.

Coming January of 2018.

I was like, garrett, listen, I get it. Like, marketing has this side to it that it has to be pretty. It's just gotta. I love anything that's pretty. So I always do professional shoots for my marketing and that kind of thing.

I thought it was bullshit as a guy.

I know. But you know what I think you bought into? Because even when we're teaching in our classes, Garrett's like, you gotta have the celebrity brand of you, and then you gotta have, like, the real version of you. And, like, the podcast is kind of like the real version of me. Not that the photos are not the real version of us, but it's a.

Nice version of you.

It's fun, though. So we. I like to do Halloween pictures every year. I do some kind of crazy face paint. I put on a. Whatever costume it is. And last year, I actually was a unicorns with my daughters. It was super cute and super fun. We. I actually, like, let them skip the whole day of school. It was fun. And this year I was like, okay. My daughter's in junior high, and she's like, mom, I don't want to dress up. And I was, like, super lame.

She will not be a unicorn this year.

I know she doesn't want to.

She's going to be Barbie this year.

Yeah. And I was like, I'm not going to dress up and be Barbie for photos. So. But I was like, that's cute. You should be Barbies. But anyways, I asked Garrett. I'm like, come do some photos. And I always go on Pinterest, and I start looking for a random face paint that I like, and I came across skulls, and there was this one.

Where do you look for random face paints?

You go on Pinterest on Facebook.

You type in, like, on Pinterest.

On Pinterest, and you type in. I typed in skulls for dudes with beards. I didn't say dudes.

You were really looking for skull faces?

Yeah. Anytime I research something, I'm, like, super, super specific, and I go to some form of social media, and I type in face paint, skull, men, beard, and then it.

And you get. Exactly. Isn't that weird how you type in what you're looking for and you get it? Yes.

You get exactly what you want. If you type in, like, men's paint, you type in. It's gonna get ugly.

Hot dogs. You're not gonna get skull face painting.

If you're specific in life, you get exactly what you want out of it.

But anyways, are you starting to drop lessons already in today's podcast? Okay, keep going.

And then I found some skull that I liked, but it's really cool if you go to again, dkwstyling.com I have, like, a. My bottom face is painted like a skull, and Garrett's top face is painted like a skull. And then he's wearing, like, this super killer suit, and I'm wearing, like, this super killer black fitted dress, and we're in this random field in the middle of nowhere, and it looks super spooky. Spooky.

It's like the hills have eyes.

You know what's funny? Like, I feel more comfortable, like, being Theatrical than I do being candid. Like, candid. I'm like, oh, so fun. But, like, theatrical. I'm like. Like, I just like.

It's because naturally, you have a demon in you. A dark, dark demon.

No, I think that, like, I'm more. I don't know what it is.

No, you have a dark, dark demon.

I like to be in character. Okay, so that's. That's where.

And her name is Susan.

No, her name.

Yes, her name is Susan.

I'm so over the Susan.

No, you're not over Susan.

Like, okay.

This picture, I believe, is exactly who Susan actually is. If you look at these Halloween photos, it is exactly what I imagine Susan to look like.

Most women have multiple personalities. I'm just gonna put that out there. So, like, just know. Most all women, rest assured that you are not crazy. But mine have two very dominant personalities. Because I feel like I have two very, like, different sides of me. Like, it's like Jekyll and Hyde kind of thing.

Exactly.

You have Susan and Susan and Danielle.

I thought Susan was a crazy bitch, and then I realized she is a crazy bitch, and I love her.

She's crazy. She's. She's fun.

Exactly. You notice how you have to hesitate there even describing because you got so many images of Susan rolling through your mind. But we didn't know what Susan looked like until the photo shoot. Now we know what su. If you want to know what Susan, the dark side of my wife, looks like, you go to the blog dkwstything.com or Instagram for Garrett J. White or dkwstything, and you can see it.

She's.

She doesn't look dead. There's nothing dead about Susie.

No, she's very.

She looks hot as shit and scary all at the same time. You're like, she's a little bit scary and she's hot.

I'm hot, and I'll rip your fucking face off.

Exactly. Lorena Bobbitt style. No, not that intense. Not that intense.

Reel it back in.

Reel it back in.

Too far.

So the photo shoot is actually inspiring. I'm taking this picture of us.

Will you admit, like, you. Like, at first, he's like, oh, these photos are silly. And now, like, for date night with the makeup? No, just in general. And now I'm like, hey, for date night, we're just gonna go out. We'll do like an hour, 45 minutes of, like, random posing, shooting, whatever, and then I'll send them the photos. And all of a sudden, I'm like, oh, that's weird. You posted that on your Instagram.

Yes, I did. You know what's crazy? You treated podcasting like I treated photo shoots.

That's true. And you know what? I am now, like, cool. I feel like I can let another side of me out.

I feel like we need to hold hands and raise them high up in the air like, we're champions and we won the marathon. Raise your hand up. Yes. Yes, yes.

This is so stupid.

This is ridiculous. But this is what we do here. So listen, like, here's the point of today's show with this Halloween photo shoot. A. It was the first time I ever had makeup put on my face like that. And I had black all around my eyes, and it made my eyes pop in a way that never popped before.

Yeah, we both had, like, Garrett has blue eyes. I have brown eyes. And we were both like, oh, you're scary. And, like.

But my eyes have never looked that intense because I don't have all the black around my eyes where you have, like, kind of the lighter skin, but you have the brown eyes. I have the blue eyes that kind of blend into my pale skin.

Yeah, when you had the contrast, it really sucks you in.

It did. Like, they were intense. Like, my eyeballs like it. Like, listen, the picture inspired me about myself too.

They were scary.

People think it's a Halloween shot. I'm literally blowing this shot up, and I'm putting this. I'm getting that. What's a picture called where you have them painted onto the canvas?

Oh, it's.

Is there a name for this?

They don't actually paint that onto the canvas.

Well, however they do the thing, they print it onto the canvas. Okay, well, they print it onto the canvas. I have a painting on a canvas of myself, and you think it's ridiculous, and I love it, and it looks like I'm 61 years old, and it's a billionaire version of me.

That's an actual painting.

It is. And it's in my man cave in my house. And I'm gonna put the crazy picture of you and I, which I believe.

I'll sign it. I'll sign it.

Susan.

Susan.

I don't even have a secondary name for my dark side. You know, I just have Dark Garrett. That's all. And that's. When I look at it, I see literally, the dark fire inside of myself.

I get it, too. Literally. Like, when you. Garrett has a full sling. And, like, when he was getting his tattoo, he was like. It's literally like Jesus on one side and, like, a demon on one Side. And I was like, oh, my God. But everybody has two sides to them.

This is the topic of our show.

Let's do it.

Let's do it now. We are finally here. The segue has been connected. So here's the problem that most of us have. I'm having consider as couples, as individuals. Here's the problem. And then how this transpires into couples individually. Most. Most people cannot accept there is two sides to them.

I think that people don't like their dark side.

Okay, tell me more.

Oh, my God. That is it.

You did not like Susan for a long time.

Let me. I was raised Mormon. I was taught, like, you put Susan away. Like, Susan can't come out. Susan's no fun. Like, you just like Danielle. You just be. You just keep your mouth shut, stay.

In your lane, and, like, you're only Danielle, never Susan.

No, I didn't know. You know, I actually. I think Susan always existed. Even college, school, like whatnot. Like, people always meet Danielle and then they accept experience Susan.

And then, you know, the thing is crazy, people experience you as Susan and Danielle, and when you blend both together, it's just, like, amazing. But you were raised honestly to suppress Susan.

I just. You know what is weird is, like, Susan is very much me. And I hate that Stacy even named her Susan.

But no, we love Stacey for naming.

Her Susan because that's the ugliest name ever. But it finally, like, sorry to all.

The Susans out there who were just told that your name is the ugliest name ever. I do not feel that way.

So, no, I just. It didn't. Susan doesn't. You know what? Susan doesn't feel like it fits me, but maybe that's why it's perfect.

It's perfect because it represents a side of you you rejected.

Sure. And I don't know if I rejected her, but she's always, like, on the back burner. And it's like, I meet somebody and I think I'm guarded. I'm just like, are you gonna be in my life? Are you gonna be in my circle? Because otherwise, you don't get to see the other half of me. If I like you, you see the other half of me. I think that's really where it is. So people are like, constantly like, oh, my God, I didn't even know, like, you were fun, and you were like this. And I'm like, well, I didn't know if I liked you. So that's why you only saw one side of me.

Well, I spent my entire life actually putting most of who I was away, like, most of who I actually. The desires I had inside. The anger, the rage, the fire, the questions, the sexual desire. Like, being raised also Mormon. Like, I. And again, I am not putting it. This has been the case across any very intense Orthodoxy, Jew, Muslim, Christian, religious across every denomination. As a child, though, when you're raised in a specific orthodoxy, typically with religion, you know what? Fuck it. I'm gonna actually say everyone.

Everyone is raised to, like, put yourself in a box. And then as you, like, really get comfortable with yourself. You own every side of yourself, including the crazy, but you learn how to manifest the crazy in a productive way.

Let me give them an example, shall I?

Of you or me?

No, of how this has played out with you and I. Sure. Okay. So Danielle has an aspect to her that I actually deeply love now that I hated, hated, loathed for most of our marriage until the last, like, four or five years.

What is this side?

This side was what I considered to be critical bitch, which was the woman who constantly could see things, only for. Let me explain. Let me explain. Critical bitch. Now, what this was was the. No matter what was going on, she was critiquing anything. So if I said I made a million dol. She would say something to the effect of, yeah, but how much was profit? If I said, hey, I've, like, crushed this workout. And she'll say, yeah, what's your body fat now? These are like. Like your body fat's too high. Like, whatever was going on, there was always this chipping away. And for most of our relationship, I thought, fucking crazy, woman. Then. Then I started to accept some crazy about myself. Like, being damn near bipolar, manic and depressed. No bullshit. I take my meds in the morning. My meds are called Core 4. And the warriors weigh the stack. In order to live myself in fire and on power, takes me about three, four hours every morning. After I'm done, I'm weaponized like a motherfucker.

Okay, I gotta say this really, really fast because I think that what happens is people sedate their blessing, and they think that they're, like, who they are. Their blessing is their curse. And so they sedate this thing that can actually give them power.

Yes. Tell me more. Keep going with this.

So it's just truth. Like. Like, people are like, shame, shame, guilt. I can't let this person out. She's not accepted. This person's weird. Like, there' stigmas with it. Like, you're bipolar. You're adhd, you're add, you're like, you needed you need to pop a pill for that. Like, you can't do this. Like, who are you? You're depressed. You're this and this and this. But it's a game of, like, what if you flipped your. Your goggles that you're wearing and you saw through a different lens and you looked at like, okay, I am a psychopath. I am borderline Rain Man. Okay, but who was it? My. My. My sister's husband was like. He said something. He said. I was. What did he say? He's like, you're.

You're autistic. No, no, no. He said, you have Tourette's. No, you have Asperger's.

Asperger's. And he said it as a compliment. And I was like, you fucker. And then I was like, yeah, I'm a little. You know, there's certain things. But the point is, like, if you look at your. It's not necessarily a curse. It literally is a blessing that you learned how to navigate through life instead of sedate, what God gave you as different. What if you learned how to use it to your benefit?

And this. This was what I spent most of my life uncovering inside of myself. And I was super. Like, anything with Danielle's dark side was viewed as wrong, broken, overthinking things. Like the. Just the way that. What went with the critical side, for example, what was critical all of a sudden became powerful to me. Like, she had the ability to see things clearly amidst chaos and not be sucked in by emotion. She could literally chip away at something, be like, this won't work because of this, or, here's how this is. Or this is off, or this is wrong. And I looked at it as complete bullshit. Like, she was, like, the worst woman I could ever have been married to because of how much. How critical she was, quote, unquote, in my mind. But then I began to accept the fact that I was fucking crazy. Like, that I have voices in my head that there are multiple people in me that are all me. There's a version of me that is a fucking psychopath that literally wants to break shit, hurt people, steal loot, do horrible shit. And there's also a part of me that wants to just sit and be loved and talk about light and possibility, but that these two parts of me, my night and my light, when unified, give me sight. And that I had spent my whole life trying to find sight through just standing in the light version of me. And that was according to what everyone else told me. You're too loud, you're too this, you can't talk that way, you can't use that language. You can't say fuck, you can't this, you can't that, you can't this, you can't that. But you can do these things. The problem was every group I was around gave me a different list of things that I could do versus what I couldn't do.

But don't you think there's two. There's like a balance. And like, when people are like, oh, you can't do this, and you can't do this for me, it's like, okay, I can't operate as Susan all the time, for sure. So it's literally learning how to cohesively live together in yourself, in yourself and your whatever, your strengths and weaknesses and multiple personalities. It's like learning to be cool with yourself and tapping into these. This dark side or this crazy side of you when needed. Look at as like your superpower. And you're like, oh, shit, I gotta, like, handle some shit with business. So, yeah, like, dark Susan's coming out. Okay, I gotta be a wife and a lover. So, yeah, Danielle's coming out. Like, you have to learn how to take these crazy personalities and tap into them as needed and to really, like, just benefit in all areas.

Well, and this process comes down to studying yourself. Like, most people don't study who they are. They don't. They don't try to uncover who they are.

They shame the pieces of them that people tell them that are wrong or they tell themselves they're wrong. This is weird. People don't act like this. People don't say this. People don't do this. And so they shame themselves. It could be other people saying no, but it could be themselves saying, no, no, no, you can't, you can't, you can't, you can't, you can't.

90% of the time, it's not other people saying things. It may have been a history of people saying certain things, but you actually say it to yourself.

What happens is, I think, like, as a childhood or like just in moments in life, somebody will say, well, you're stupid. Well, you can't do this. And this can't elaborates into like hundreds of people. So we could have had like four people tell us we're crazy or four people tell us we can't. But in our minds, it's like 4 million. It's like 4 million because our minds go crazy and we're like, well, you can't do this. And we're like, literally triggered by the one Time that, like, stung us to the core.

And then we allow that story to become the truth. So here's a piece inside of marriage I want you to see so we can connect this back to relationships. Unless you can accept the fullness of who you are as an individual, as a man, if you cannot accept that you're crazy, that you're a dumbass, that you break shit, that you are, you do some really dumb things, and at the same time, you do some really brilliant things. And guess what? You get to be both. Right? My dad, back when I was younger, when I was in eighth, ninth grade, I was getting upset about acne on my face because I wanted to impress girls. And my dad came and made an interesting comment to me. He said, listen, you know, you've got two choices. He's like, you could either have the acne and keep your football skills, which at the time were leading me to a full ride scholarship to Boise State to play out of high school American football, or you could get rid of the acne and lose all of your skills on the football field. What would you choose? And I was like, yeah, I'm gonna keep football. I put a helmet on.

Is that where you were breaking out?

I was breaking out when I was young. Like 9th, 10th grade? No, no, no. I was breaking out just from being a teenager. But the same hormones that gave me the acne are the same hormones that gave me the skills to play football. So, like, you don't get to have one or the other. You just don't get to have one or the other. You get to be all of it. Hey, listen, you got great skills on the football field. And guess what? You also have a lot of zits. Congratulations, man.

That was one of those moments that, like, stung with you, though.

No, but it was beautiful. It was a choice for me to choose to be both pieces of me, but that was just like a small piece. It wasn't until years later that I actually accepted all, like, both parts of who I was, the dark side and the light side. And when this happened, Susan came alive. What I mean by that is I stopped. I stopped persecuting at the same.

In relationships, what happens is like, all of a sudden when you're like, you accept your side. Because I think ultimately people don't like when they don't like themselves, basically. Like, they come for sure, people come across inauthentic because they don't like themselves. You know what I mean? And so even there was a moment where when you didn't accept probably your dark side or whatever it is. And maybe I was like, a little bit turned off. It was because I was like, God, like, you come across like this confident man, but you weren't really accepting every side of yourself. And that goes, like, both ways. And so, like, even in our relationship, as I become, like, more free with myself and just cool with myself and less, less, I don't know, the crazy bitch that's, like, always throwing jabs because I have two sides of me. And I think that when we met, like, I was very much like the fun, free, free spirited person. Do you know what I mean? So it's almost like I. I brought her back and then it was like you could see both sides. And it's like, when one is cool with themselves, they attract others. Like, and even in a relationship, no matter how long you've been married, if that chemistry gets lost, sometimes it's because of, like, for men, maybe, like, they're dictating, they get like. And I was probably, excuse me, guilty of this too, but if I was, like, constantly jabbing at you and not realize I was jabbing at you, all of a sudden you're not as confident, right? And so you can't be cool with yourself and you can't just be, like, on both sides of you.

But, well, you know what's crazy with it is that I needed the jabbing to get to where I was and to get to where I am today. But the difference is now you can say it now and I listen and I'll say, fuck off and. Or I'll say, you're right. Like, I can say both.

You can take it.

I can say, hey, I hear what you're saying. Fuck off. And then I can also say, hey, I hear what you're saying. That's a great idea. But, like, that is relationship, which is the ability for a person to be all of themselves in relationship. Was my mission for myself and for you as a couple was to figure out how can we be all of ourselves, right? Like, there's dark Susan sex and there's like, Danielle's sex. Totally different sex. Both are amazing. Not gonna lie. I like when dark Susan comes out. Quite nice. Qqp, my friends, Susan runs the porn night. So this is like in sex, but inside a relationship with us, a couple too. As we become more adaptable to ourselves, I think our relationship just blows up, like, in a big way, in beauty.

I just think we can, like, say stuff and be less triggered. Do you know what I mean? We're just like, like, that's on you like, you're having a hard day. Whatever. Like, it is what it is. So I think when you're comfortable with yourself, too, there's times too where I know when to stop an argument or if something goes up. And I'm like, garrett, stop it. Because I'll feel us going into this.

Weird, dark Susan and dark Garrett. Yeah.

And I'm like, those don't mesh well. And so in the past, I would have been like, I would have played the passive aggressive card and been like, oh, whatever, I don't want to talk to you, it's fine. And then you would have pushed back and been irritated that I was acting like, I. I don't know what you're talking about. I'm kind of flighty. And now I just like, look at you. And I'm like, listen, we can go down this path and we can fucking go to war. But instead of me being, like, standoffish and flighty and just be like, passive aggressive, I'm like, stop. I literally am like, stop. And I've done that actually a couple times this week of situations where I could tell, like, both of us were like, at that. And I was like, I'm not going to go there. I'm not going to be passive aggressive. But I need you to understand, like, we're not like, stop. Like, I didn't even know what else to say.

Well, and this again comes down to the acceptance of yourself. So we're going to wrap up the show with the following idea. Individually, if you do not come to terms with the fact that you have a brilliant side that is filled with light, and you have a brilliant side that is filled with night. That you're crazy offsets your creator, and that your creator cannot exist without your crazy, and your crazy cannot exist without your creator. And until you can come to terms with yourself on this, you will never find harmony long term in relationship with any other person. Specifically with your wife. On the flip side of this, the question becomes, then how do you actually go about discovering it? This is what we've done at Wake Up Warrior, what we've done with Warrior Woman, what we've done at Big Money Stylist, which is lead individuals on this path to coming to accept the true power of who they are at both extremes, in the dark and. And in the light, in the night and in the light, so that they can ultimately gain the purest sight of being able to see truth. Right? It's weird what happens when you start to accept that this is true inside of you, that you're Diabolical. And you're divine. When you accept that this is true about you, and you could begin to come to terms and embrace and love both sides of you, you start to love and appreciate humanity and people around you at a level you never could before, because you're not hiding anymore. I'm not trying to apologize for being me. I'm not gonna be okay and say, hey, I'm okay. Here. Thank you. I love you. But, Garrett, when you do this, I hate it. Well, guess what? That's fucking part of me. That's part of me. That behavior is never gonna change. This is who I am. There is a core essence to how I operate that's never gonna change. My wife is never going to be able to operate on six hours of sleep. I, on the other hand, completely dominate at six hours of sleep. If I sleep as much as my wife does, I'm done.

I survive on, like, two hours of sleep.

True. And it's a scary place for everyone. Dark Susan kicks in, and even Dark Susan's exhausted.

You know what, too is, like, when you start to realize certain personality traits in yourself? There's times when I'm, like, an ugly side of me or something will come out. But now understanding, like, I can use her when I need her. I'm like, stop it. Now's not the time.

Yes, me too.

Yeah. So, like, understand, too. Like, there's times in relationships, whether it's married life, friends, whatever, where you start to operate a certain way and just out of, like, old patterns and habits and whatever. And, like, you either a lot of people, like, will retreat.

Yeah, yeah.

And there's just like. And still same in a relationship, or you close off. So there's certain times when you're like, okay, we don't need to go to war right now. But, like, closing off necessarily isn't necessary. It's not healthy either.

I think that the game is not suppression or it's not suppressing. It's submitting.

It's submitting for the better. Like, I always ask myself, and it's so funny, because we just had a BMS event, and there's this woman in there, and I feel for her so much, and she just wants me to give her, like, a checklist of, like, what to do to improve a relationship. And I'm just like, girl, I see your pain, and I'm just like you. I just. I don't know how to, like, say this without. There's submission on both sides. And I always. What I've been telling women lately is I'M like, listen, something that really has helped me is, like, what do you want in this specific situation? Ask yourself, how do I get what I want in this specific situation? Literally, would I have to do xyz? Do I have to talk to this person? Do I have to apologize for this? Do I have to look at myself and take accountability? Like, how do you get to the end result that you're looking for? What are the steps required to. And always when I ask myself, like, how do I get what I want in this situation? It requires submission at some level, but then ultimately I'm happier and I get what I want. And so then I'm like, yeah. And that overall feeling is way better than just, like, retreating, closing down, and like, everything else.

And that is a process of submission, not the process of sedation. And most couples spend their money, people.

Get triggered by, like, submission.

But they sedate themselves, right? So they don't want to submit. So they sedate you eat, you drink, you pop pills, you ignore. You go to fitness, you go to religion. You go to whatever it is you need to to avoid having to collide religion as sedating.

I never thought about that.

Oh, people sedate like crazy in religion. They use it as an excuse to justify the shitty relationship they're in with some big idea that'll be magical when they die.

Both of us have sedated with, like, working out at some point. Do you know what I mean? We're not getting paid to do this. This isn't like our. This isn't our livelihood. What are we running from exactly? It literally got to that point, and I had a hard time because it was the first time in my life, even, and I know we're coming to an end of the show, that I realized sedation can be a sneaky little bastard. And it can come in many forms and not just, like you said, pills, alcohol, drugs, obviously, the naughty ones or whatnot. But it can come in working out. It can come in. On our last podcast, you're like, come in Netflix. It can come in shopping. It can come in. And I've never thought of even, like, religion, but, yeah, like, finding something to kind of, like, hide and sedate in.

So we're gonna bring the show to a close. We're amazing. You're amazing. We're all amazing. Exactly how screwed up and crazy we are.

Own you're crazy.

Own your crazy. Our challenge for you this week to talk about during date night is, well, to have a conversation about your particular crazy.

Who is your dark side?

What is the Name of your dark side? Is it Susan? I don't know. Maybe she's related to Danielle's dark side. I do not have a name for my dark side. Do you have a name for my dark side? I just have a name. It's called More fucking Intense Gary.

Oh. If I put a name to him, I'd be like, it would have to be a name like, I don't know anyone named Susan, so maybe that's why it's safe. It'd have to be a name for you. No, I think of Garth Brooks. It can't.

Garth Brooks. That's not gonna work.

No. So it's gotta be like something weird. It's gotta be, I don't know, Bob Black.

Susan and Bob. Susan, we'd like to welcome you to Susan and Bob.

Susan and Bob would like to. Should we have an accent for Susan and Bob?

I've got an accent for Bob. Hello, my name's Bob. Welcome to today's show. We're gonna introduce you as part of the characters going forward.

You're like, British and then you went somewhere else.

My name's Bob. I don't know. All right, we're done with today's show. Hope you guys have a fantastic week. We look forward to seeing you next week on Date your wife. Also, again, remember, if you are not getting access to a lot of the more powerful content beyond this podcast, we'd encourage you to head to warriorbook.com and or to DKW styling.com both. These journeys available for beginning men and women down a process of powerful connection for all of our ladies out there. Wakeup. WarriorWoman.com would be a solution for you and living the worries way also. But that brings conclusion for today. Thank you so much for being here. We are out. We will see you guys next week. We're signing off. We don't actually have a sign off, so we're just gonna say bye. Bye.

Let's do a high five.

High five. This is Bob. We're signing off.

And Susan, Bob.