🔥Wes Watson & Angie on Love, Power & Divine Connection

My friends, welcome to another episode of the Date your Wife podcast here coming at you in Miami. Miami, Miami. Miami. This was your fault that we're here now.

You're welcome.

Well, place to be.

The best place to be. He already surprised, attacked us, announced himself. We didn't get there. He's that excited. Listen, about a year and a half ago. About a year and a half ago, I was online and I saw this guy, Wes Watson. Didn't know who he was, but I completely resonated with who he is. He's controversial as. Just like me. I'm the guy that I run with guys who half the world loves them, half the world hates them, and I happen to be connected to all of them, and they all talk shit in different directions. The thing was, he was my guy. I hired him as a coach. He came on as a trainer in my world. I sent my brother to him. I sent my son to him. Because sometimes your own son won't listen to you. He got him off of marijuana. He got him doing a whole lot better shit in his life, and it's been part of his process. So once we moved to Miami, we knew the time would come. We tried to set up a pool party a couple weeks ago. That didn't work because we all got kids that get sick. And today we have the beautiful and Lovely Angie and Mr. Wes Watson here on the show with Danielle and I on the Date youe Wife podcast. Bro, you. You. You ready to be on a couple show?

This is gonna be crazy. I mean, we just did. We just did an interview, like two or three weeks ago, and it just blew everything out the water on the page because everybody wants to know why she keeps coming back.

I think that's the question that all psychopaths with a beautiful, gorgeous woman ask over and over. So, Angie, what do you think? Why? Why what? Let's go back. When's the first time you saw this man, like, either online or in person? How did this happen?

So one of my childhood friends was like, you have to check out this guy. He talks so much shit. It's so funny. You have to see it. So he sends me a video of him calling men pussies and bitches with titties. And I was like, oh, my gosh, I like him. So I started following him. And then I was doing Theta Healing, and my childhood friend was like, maybe he can teach you how to monetize it online. So I messaged him on a Saturday night I'll never forget, and I was like, hey, do you coach women? And that's how it all started.

Was it, like, through a dm?

She came through my funnel on High Level, and she said she was a dancer in Vegas, and she's pregnant, she can't dance anymore, and she needs to do something with her platform. And I'm like, a dancer in Vegas. Oh, she's a stripper. And so then I'm like, hell, yeah, she's probably pretty hot. And then I see her name. I can tell her name, and she's pretty hot name. And I talked to her on the phone, and I'm like, yeah, she sounds hot. Then she. Then she comes through, she buys my program. And so she. She bought it to me first, but she paid me first. No, but. And then. And then she. She came through, and I saw her pictures when she uploaded them on my app, and I'm like, oh, she's way hot. You know, like, she had a. You know, she had the features, but. And then I didn't really pay attention to her because I was actually married to the. This psychopath.

Oh, you were married?

Yeah, I was married to a lunatic at the time, but I was still loyal. And then. And then I got on calls with her on zoom calls, and I was like, man, she's pretty hot, you know? But I just still didn't pay attention until my marriage fell apart. And then I asked her, I'm like, hey, do you want to come hang out sometime? She's like, yeah. I'm like, well, roll out, you know, like, what, do you want to come. You want to come tomorrow? And she's like, yeah, sure. And she came out.

Was this when you were in San Diego?

Yeah, we were together ever since.

Okay, got it. Okay.

How long goes that?

Like, three years.

Okay, so when you. When you sent the message looking for business help, was there a part of this? Was also like, I kind of want to get close to this guy too.

Or was it all business, Daddy? When she would play her my podcast in the car with her daughter and came out later. She'll never tell the truth.

No. Okay. I. I find it attractive when somebody speaks truth, no matter how the delivery is. Right? So he's saying some things, and I'm like, oh, Daddy, that was good, right? When I was in the car listening to his Spotify or whatever it was. So my daughter be like, mom, stop. But I was actually pregnant at the time, so I. When I went to hire him, I had no intention of, like, let me. Let me. Let me see what's up, or let me try to talk to him and I. And I saw that he was married. There was no intention of that, but just things end up happening.

Right.

Okay, that's one thing. That's crazy.

Yeah.

I get a lot of talked to me online by these ass dudes who call someone a simple or a beta because they would choose to take care of a single mom.

Yeah.

I mean, it is a. Any one of you guys who subscribe to this red pill, dork, lame ass. Like, all you guys who think it's wrong to leave a child without a father, and most you guys are probably fatherless children. That's why you're like that. You're probably jealous that someone stepped in and your dad's a piece of. But anyways, I mean, who the even thinks that way? I mean, this child is so beautiful. She saved my life more than anybody else.

Well, you realize. You realize coming to this, like, just. Even the psychology, even the willingness to. You know, I didn't even know. I didn't even know, Lula. I didn't real. I didn't know you were pregnant. I literally thought it was your baby together. When I got the full backstory to the fact that you were not only. Because even when you guys were separated, I was. Wes was like, every time I'm talking to him, he was like, I'm taking care of the girls. I'm taking care of the girls. I'm taking the girl. This is not normal, bro. Like, most dudes don't do this.

Yeah, we. Yeah, I. You know, Earth fell apart. Yeah.

So, like, that. That attitude isn't normal. You know, that's not normal either. Right. Like, so as you go. But go back to the beginning, as you guys are connecting, as you start to see that when does chemistry start to build? Like, you send the message. You have the conversation. When does chemistry start for you with.

Him on the calls, just talking. The fact that I told him I was completely betrayed when I was pregnant. I'm not gonna make it through my whole pregnancy with all my savings. And I have this beautiful skill. I don't know what to do.

And.

And everybody's like, just get an abortion. But I feel that, yeah, I couldn't do that. My soul couldn't do to have an abortion with a baby. So he's like, you know what? I commend you for following through, even though everyone else was against what you felt was right. So I was like, you know what? I respect that because nobody had my back like that. So my heart softened up for him.

Who are these people who just for some. Because some money is gonna be an issue. They would like kill a child. I just don't even understand that shit. But it's just, I was, I'm successful. So it was like ah, like, and she was, she's beautiful. And I was like, well, we can make it work. I just don't think that way. I'm not like, that's not my blood. Like these guys that are like walleye, halibut looking Minnesota, they're just all like, they're the ugliest people. And they're like, you don't want to continue your bloodline. I'm like, bro, someone should tell you to stop. There should be a court order that you could have no more kids. Bro, you are disgusting. You know, they're just like much you don't want to have. Of course I want to have my own kids. But I'm like doing so many other things. It would probably be pretty irresponsible to say, hey, let's have a kid right now. And this is what a lot of people do. They don't really have a purpose like mine which is helping the world. I wake up and think about the world. I really, I don't think about individuals. I wake up and think about how I can solve problems in a world a global scale and then my family will be taken care of. Everyone's so stupid and so small thinking they're like, I have to take care of my five family members. That's it. Dude, that's not how it works. Like think on a global scale, get paid on a global scale. And I mean profit solves everything other than the personal development issues that, that's what we worked on in the beginning. So like dense ass people here, like profit solves everything. And I'm like, I'm like, you guys stop with that. You know that I'm a habit based individual first and foremost. You're trying to just pull the wool over people's eyes because you're financially insecure. But I mean the whole point is think globally and you'll take care of every problem at home.

So it wasn't ever an issue like her being pregnant at the time. You weren't, oh, this is baggage or what? You didn't.

I never thought about that. I think kids are awesome. I mean I, I, I, I had a shitload of money. I'm like, I'm like, I can take care of everybody's kid. Give me more kids. It like, I'm like, I'm like, I never, I don't. The reason I'm successful is because I go into. I want without thinking about all the logical scenarios. Like, rich people take risks. And like, logical people don't get rich because they think about every small detail. So, like, I'll always be rich because I take risks and I'm someone who doesn't give a fuck. I'm like. It feels right. Go. You know, and that's it. I jump out of the plane, put the parachute on the way down. That's how I do.

If you connect with somebody, it shouldn't matter. Like, when I met Garrett, I was. We're seven years apart and he had a kid. And to me it was like. Like the connection, it was just like, oh, cute, let's go meet your son. It's like, I love you.

Who even considers you. It's.

It wasn't for me. People like, oh my God, I can't believe he has a son. Why are you dating him? That's what they tell me. And I was like, well, I don't. I mean, he's a cool guy. I really like him, you know? So for me, that's why I asked that question. Because I was like. I didn't think of it as like a big deal. I was like, cute. I love kids. Why not, you know?

So were you. Were you. Were you there with the birth?

She had the baby in Vegas. She. She used to do these things where she would just run the off all the time. Like there would be like a slight argument and she would just dip. And that's what. Where our problems. A lot of problems came from. She needs to address that. And she did this time. But I mean, it just kept happening. And I'm like, I don't. No one was there. She didn't let anyone be there when the baby was born. That's crazy, right? Yeah, but I just. That's her choice. I don't give a. My whole thing is, is I'll roll with someone for life as long as they're just forget about causing daily drama like the. They're no big problem to me. I've been to prison. I. I've done all the worst someone could do. Like your guys's little. Little issues out here that you guys think are big ain't to me. It's like me accidentally get some on the bottom of my shoe when I walk in here. What you guys think will ruin your lives, it's nothing to me. So, I mean, I anticipate like that problems are going to happen, but I'm already committed. I'm already committed to her for life. It's Just up to her to be able to make sure that I can keep doing what I need to do.

So, Angie, how come you felt is. I feel like women, we want safety and security, and it can be like, scary.

Guys don't know what that is.

Right. But my question is, like, if what made you feel like you weren't safe with him and how come you guys kept kind of splitting up?

I think because I think men are not as emotionally attuned as women. We have bigger feelings, bigger emotions, because we're wired that way. We're mothers. Right? And so when I get overstimulated, I need time for myself so that I can center myself to even function normally. So sometimes when things get really tense for long periods of time, I need time alone. So I would just leave.

I don't know if it's the word, but I mean, like a guy said one time, a pretty smart guy, he said, choose a woman that she has a very short period between when she's mad and when she's cool again. And like, of the refraction rate or something. I think it has to do with something else. But the. The whole point is, is like, like, do you understand your. The outcome you want? And can you just get it without getting your emotions in the way you want? You have an outcome you want. Don't let your emotions deter you from the outcome. Co.

This is. This is. This. Like, this is like the logical frame we go down.

They want a guy more emotionally, like, in tune, and that guy's gay. Like, the guy wants to dance. And, like, if the guy really is like, hey, like, I'm gonna take up salsa dancing. You should wonder if he's homosexual or not.

You don't like salsa dancing? I suck ass at it, but I'll get down.

Honestly. I. I honestly am a CEO boss. I sit in the back. She could dance on me if I was dancing. If I was dancing, the whole place would like, what. Who the told them to do that?

That's why I'm gonna take you dancing, bro. You know, we're gonna take the girls dancing. It was fun.

Literally.

It's just not me that. That is fully. Anyone could choose do what they want.

Too big of a body to be, like, moving around like that.

It would.

It would ruin everybody's day if we had to see that. If everyone had to watch me try to learn how to dance, it would unmake what men are in society today. Like, men would just start probably. Men would start probably making flowers all of a sudden. They.

All.

Men would be interior Decorators like that. Someone has to still just be like, nah, that breath, work, all that. God wants me to be a savage, and I'm just gonna run in the few things God wants me to do. What's up? Like, I. I'm just. I'm not doing.

I can say.

You say. You guys really balance each other off. She's like, very, like, calm.

She's not calm. On the way here, she's going, you. I don't know if you could put that. Yeah, way here. On the way back from the gym, she called me every name in the book. As I just said, babe, I was just telling you, do a call to action. I really want you just really make some money today. And then she's just like, hey, you use my body, you use my energy hours. You were just using my vagina. And I'm like. I'm like. And you. And you. You get to tell me that I throw money in your face when you throw sex in my face.

This is the truth.

This is the thing. If I'm giving you. I just need. I have certain needs, right? I just need five minutes to do things. I. I appreciate him. He's helping me so much to post and everything, but I just needed five minutes to just to myself.

She'll make 100 grand a month if she listens to me. And 100 grand a month would kill it for her. She already made, like, 40 grand this month, or 30 grand, which was zero the months before when I wasn't going do this, do this, do this. I know she's worked a million dollars a month, and I can build that in her. Like, a million dollars a month is nothing to me. Like, so be around those people like that and just fucking listen to them. Like, how bad do you want to get out of your position of a man being able to control you with money? Like, just, dude, get the money. Then you can't say I'm controlling you. And then if you want to control me with sex, then now we're gonna have a problem because I'm gonna need it.

But it's not about controlling somebody for sex. That's why I'm like. I was like, you dance. It wasn't about sex. It's the fact that I'm giving you my energy when I haven't even had time to center and ground myself. So I'm like, I. So then I was resenting him for that, but really, that was an inside issue. But that's why I need something.

But that's why I said, I'm like, Plan better get a sitter.

We have time.

This is all this done.

That's why I need a moment so I can plan those things and process. Okay, this is what I need. This, this and that. There's a lot of moving parts.

Do you know how we get this moment?

We hire nanny.

Nanny.

Exactly.

This is the.

Because listen, that was my solution. I'm like, I'll pay for it. Just find the person.

It's hard though, as a woman.

Like, yeah, you don't want to toss your kid off to a weirdo.

And even like, there's some that are like, either seem great for like six months and then they turn and get all weird. And so it's hard, like, for women to like, let go of that.

Most people are complete weirdo losers. Like, straight up. I don't trust most people. People. Yeah. Especially like someone who has to be a nanny. That's got to be a different type of person. Like in my, My old house in San Diego, Rancho Santa fe, I mean, it's 20, 000 square feet, 15 bathrooms. A billionaire lived there before. So these people were like, they were so good at being servants, like, service. They were just like, they never once made you think that they were like, you were dis. Inconveniencing them. They were so good, but they were foreign and they were like, European foreign. Like, it's just a different level. Like, there's. There's people who they've accepted. That's their position.

Yeah.

And they were. They were high level people. But I mean. Yeah.

So we have an agency.

Hiring someone on a whim is pretty probably.

Yeah, we'll help you get. Because I get it. Like, it's your house and you don't want to feel like you're like, I don't want to feel like I'm stepping on eggshells. Like, this is my home. You're here to do a job. And I want to feel safe with, like, having my kids with you.

But we'll.

We'll give you guys an agency.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Because this space that you're talking about. Danielle's the same way.

I do admit though, when, like when she's going through, I'm like, it's impossible to be around the baby all day. I get it. But you could still fucking do your quick food post or workout post. We did the workout. I gave it to you to post it. We're driving in the car back. Just get the on camera and say, hey, hop on my team. This really structured my energy correctly by doing this workout. I was Jumping out my skin earlier, and now I'm 40% less than that. As I win the rest of the day, I'm going to elevate my frequency. I'm going to be at a higher level. This act of self love brought me from, like, negativity to positivity real quick. And ladies, like, this is what it's about. It's not about the craziest body ever. It's about, like your internal state, learning how to cultivate it correctly so you can give the correct energy to your kids, your husband, everyone around you. But I mean, like, a lot of people try to teach energy and frequency and they're just going, frequency, frequency, vibration, and they don't know how to teach it.

Is that what you do?

No, she. She does it fine. But mostly speakers online, I love you. No, no, no. She actually, she teaches in a different way. She always says, what's God's interpretation of, like, what's he trying to teach you right now? So, but I, I always say your conscience is the authentic voice of God. So anything that your conscience is telling you to do is something that is unavoidable. And if you don't adhere to what your conscience is telling you to do, you will actually be operating in a low frequency state. Because then regret will ensue and then, you know, shame and guilt. And these are. This could be like, even me not taking care of the girls when I wasn't with them. Like, God would not let me not take care of them.

I really like what you just said. Your conscious. Say it again.

Your conscience is the authentic voice of God.

I like that.

And people are like, why would you take care of these girls are not yours? I'm like, God won't let me not. And I'm like, They're like, why? I'm like, you don't hear that when you're doing something wrong. I get no clarity throughout the day. If I wouldn't be like, hey, do you guys need money? Because I have money sitting there and I know I'm withholding it from some beautiful girls that are special to me and need it. And then God's like, you piece of shit. Just, you need to do this. The second I would do it, I'd have complete clarity. I would be blessed in 50 other ways financially. And I'm like, I don't think people are seeing this. And then it's not even just that. It's the smallest things from the way you're eating, you know, your workout, everything that raises your frequency. And I like to look at it in two different scopes. Like, high frequency is like Christ consciousness. It's. It's fucking enlightenment. It's the highest you could be when you really listen to every step God wants you to do each day. And then low frequency is like demonic possession. I mean, this is when you've succumbed to all vices. You're letting your negative internal dialogue just break you down. You're conducting yourself in a way that, I mean, you're. You're detrimental to those around you. You're no longer an asset. You're a complete liability. And this has you in a state of complete shame and guilt. And you're in this shame and guilt spiral where you're just consuming the food or doing the drugs or the negative acts. And so you can look at it from the scope of God or the devil. And you can look at it from the scope of, like, the frequency chart. If anyone Googles it, type in low frequency chart, you know, low emotions chart. And you'll have the low frequency stages, which is guilt, shame, you know, desire, anger, fear. And then it goes into acceptance, you know, love, gratitude, enlightenment. And so the only thing I want people to do is realize there's only two states. There's high frequency and low frequency. And when you're a low frequency state, what gets you into a high frequency? And that's all I want people to understand. And if they're like, well, no, there's. They try to confuse it with, like, this spiritual bypassing where they think that God doesn't want them to be all these ways, but they still live in this low frequency infancy state that I could say is demonic possession. They're evil, they're negative. Yeah, I'm that way when I get myself down there.

So, Angie, how do you. How do you like the space that you needed, like, for today? Think about the post, because Danielle and I have gone back and forth and stuff like this a lot where I didn't understand as a man. I think God has four daughters and a wife, two nannies, two personal assistants.

We were arguing. I thought about how tired he is, and I was like, nine women, not tired. I wanted to show him your story.

Nine women in my world to try to offset my masculinity. Because I couldn't understand through our first two children, like, at all, like, that she needed to recharge. So that's when, like, nannies for us became, like, inarguable. Like, we had to have it or we were gonna blow up as a couple. Because I would come back from doing all the intense shit. All day. She'd been managing the kids. I for sure know I can't wash the kids all day. I can do weekends, harden the paint for a day and a half. If I had to do it seven days a week, every single week. Oh, I fucking tap. I couldn't do it.

I couldn't do it for one day.

Couldn't do it.

But I admit that, though.

How do you like for you, what have you come to find for yourself, even outside the situation that lets you as a woman, being in relationship with such a powerful guy who's got tons of energy, who's used to speaking and blowing tons of fire and energy? What have you found for you that lets you get back to your calm place?

For me, that's. Excuse me. For me, that's alone time. I like to ground center myself. If I get any chance I get, I'm outside in the grass, just alone time so I can center myself and have that connection within my body and God. And that's where I do my own internal processing. Because if I'm having a reaction, I know it's not Wes and it's me, but I need that alone time so I can address myself. I'm not gonna go call a friend or complain about things.

I want to work on it myself.

How do you get alone time with your daughter is like nap time or like mornings or.

I try to any second I can.

You're like, here, play with this puzzle. I'll be back.

This is like literally the priority as your friends. The priority above all priorities, above content posting, above everything, is bringing this person into your world. Because once they're there, it's like another family member. It'll be like having a sister. Slash, it's like people come to our house, they're like, you have like a harem isa. Yeah. To sleep with one of them in the restaurant. My amazing women in my world who are moms, too.

I realized when I was trying to, like, multitask and work and all this, I'm like, I'm not being present with her. And, like, I would rather hire a nanny who. That's their job. Their job is to be present and do all those things. So I had to have this, like, heart to heart moments with, like, somebody who's being a nanny might actually be a better mom in this moment than I was being.

Right. Right.

So. But it's still hard to, like, trust somebody. Let somebody in your house. I'll tell you guys, our last two kids, I said, like, I wanted three. And then the Last one was a surprise. And I'm like, you know what? We're going to do it different. And I told him, I said, because it was really hard at nighttime because we wanted together time. And you have kids climbing all over you. And so we have a night nanny who just helps us, like, cook dinner and do bath time, even if we're, like, in the movie room watching a movie, because we need that alone time together. So I was going to say for you guys, it might be like, you have a nanny in the morning, get your morning shit done, and then have a nanny, like, three nights a week so you guys can have, like, a conversation without, like, worrying about kids. You know, it could be date night. It could be just, like, sitting at home eating dinner, whatever it is. But it'll change the game inside of your relationship and it'll cause less triggers. Because I can tell you, as somebody who's had experience, a lot of triggers are caused by the chaos with kids and managing a business. And you're like, I just want to relax and talk to my girl.

Right.

But then you got kids screaming on all the things.

Right.

Is your radar on, like, all the time?

Yes.

Yeah.

Like, explain that, because this is something that Danielle had to explain to me because, like, I can shut the radar off. Like, I leave the house, I don't think about the kids. I'm not thinking about.

We're like, it's two o'.

Clock.

My baby should be getting it. Like, we are brains never. Even if we're working, our brains are always on multitasking.

The main thing should be for her to find the person who will help, though.

Yeah.

My main job is to make sure I can pay for the personnel. Yeah, you need to find the person. Yeah. Because I'm not going to find them and have them be a piece of shit and then it all falls on me. So, oh, this person is of this and that. Oh, God, now I tried and I get crucified.

We'll find you.

But this. This is. The thing is. I mean, like, this is. We solved all this. Like, we have the money. Just.

Yeah, this is.

No more excuses.

Yeah.

We need to get everything done.

Yeah.

So I. I mean, like, I guess if the guy was a bum and you had no other choice, but that's just. I. Someone said the other day on one of my things, they say she's only with you for the money. Like, what if. What. When you run out of money, she's gonna leave you. And I go, good. I don't date chitch who date broke Guys, I wouldn't date a chick who would date a loser. And they're like, what? I'm like, if I had no money, I'm a loser. And I wouldn't date a chick who dates losers. And they're like, oh, that. Like, they're like, you're a. And I'm like, no, I'm realistic. I'm keeping myself from being a loser. Like, I'm. I hold standards to myself.

Yeah.

And so, like, even yesterday I said, if she don't have a solid gold Rolex and a Birkin yet, like, that's baseline. Like, you got your chick looking busted. And these guys are. These guys are all mad. They're like, she's only. If she only wants that, it's a problem. I'm like, I'm like, you should want her to have that. If she doesn't want that, it's a worth issue. What do you guys think about materialism and. And the spiritual side? Because a lot of God people are so weird about spiritual. They probably crucify you about materialism.

Right. Well, you got two things right. So we were messaging back and forth about this as we've gone through our phase where she's like, you just think I'm a vagina for sex. I was like, and you just think I'm a fucking ATM machine that has unlimited credit. You just run the amex every single. But we had it. We came to terms with this as a couple. And then it'll lead to the material.

Side, which was, I'm a high paid.

Prostitute and I am paying for the service.

Dude, they're gonna love that.

Only I had moments on our marriage where I'm like, okay, I just, I just added this up. Like you, if there was like the top, highest paid escorts in the world, you're like above them with the output I'm getting right now. So, like, we've got to recalibrate this, this, this relationship contract.

Yeah. Don't ever let me spend ten grand on shopping and not get laid within two hours. We're having a problem. And it shouldn't be just normal.

It's before shopping to make sure you're taking care of.

Oh, I never get it before. I'm. I'm the after part.

We have a little one this thing.

I like shopping for. I like taking her somewhere and dressing her up. And because she won't go shopping, you need to take her. She will not buy for herself.

Oh, D you go with that?

This is like over stimulation for me. Going to the shopping with the toddler. And being over stimulated, you're not looking at.

She likes it, though. So every. She always says, over stimulate. All this. If she really went by her feelings, she wouldn't do much.

I don't take my.

And then. Then I force her to go do stuff. And she's like, oh, that was awesome.

Yeah.

Yeah. And she's like, hey, thank you for getting me to go do that. I'm like, well, sometimes I get a thank you, and sometimes I get a you. You know, again, I'm like, God damn that dude.

You're not the only one.

You know what, though? Like, going back to your question, though, like, I think if somebody, like you said, it's like, it's a worthy issue. Like, I had somebody. I had, like, a nice bag, and somebody's like, oh, I just decided I don't want to spend money on a bag. I just prefer to travel. I'm like, cool. I prefer to do both.

That's what I always say.

I'm like.

I'm like, oh, excuse me. So you have to choose.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Like the.

Yeah.

So if you're with. Do you have any girlfriends you run with?

No.

Do you have any girlfriends you run with?

I got lots of kids.

Okay, good. So we set this podcast up so you two can meet.

I'll take a shot.

Harbor's right there.

I'm gonna say I blame Wes.

We're like, both our girls are beautiful and amazing and powerful and don't have friends to go out with. And this is the. This is a challenge. When you're in and around so much activity, a lot of times people, like, will come at her, and we've had so much bullshit come at her from women who try to use her. People trying to use us.

Protective of my energy.

Yeah.

I would just honestly be like, please, take the driver, take the rolls, take my car, go have lunch. I know you're gonna come back happy because I would, like. I would go hang out with my friends, do all that, come back and be like, oh, cool. Like, I want. You know, I want to see you again or something. You need go take that awesome break, you know?

Yeah.

Well, she has in the morning. We had to. We had to create space for. Because of how many children we have, because it affects me. Because I would come back after hunting all day, and she's so tapped.

Yeah.

So I get where you're. What you're talking about. Like, I didn't understand it, and I.

Would be, like, resentful for him. And I was like, but why? It's because of the simulation that I'm just like, here, take the kids, you know?

Yeah.

And so I understand it. But even then, like, it's. It's hard with kids. Like, you're going to have your moments. So it's like, that's. Have you signed up for.

You know, have you ever hit Wes in the face with a red, red bottom? Shoes.

Tell this. This story, but you don't tell the first part of the story of why you got hit in.

Hey, we just can stop with the fact that you took it. I took one right to the forehead.

So many times on the podcast, and I. Nobody shares the pre story.

Okay, tell the pre story.

Well, Garrett, one time, he's a very reactive man, and I'm like, hey, much better. I don't want to fight. So I have a. I retreat. If he's in this mood where he's like, wanting to fight and fight, I'm like, whatever.

I don't want to physically fight.

No, but he'll. He does the thing, and I'm like, I don't.

So we.

There was one night this, like, years, years ago. He's literally, like, following me from room to room to room to room to room. We end up in my closet. I had, like, a massive walk in closet. Then he starts taking my shoes and chucking them on the floor.

I did not.

Yes, you did.

Yes.

So I took a shoe and was like, didn't mean to throw it right at his face. It landed on his face.

No, no, no, you didn't. It was a weapon. You were holding the toe of the shoe. You're in my face, and I. I don't realize what you got in your hand, because I'm distracted by your face. Because it's beautiful. And then.

Right.

He got in the way.

Yeah.

So this is the thing. We. We both do that thing where we go room to room. But honestly, every time we argue, I'm like, I don't want to fight. I don't got time for this. And then she'll say, that's so bad and triggering. I'm like, oh, you. And I just get. And then I'll be like, can you stop? And, like, you have to admit, most of the times I've been saying, please, let's stop. I just say, please, God, let's stop. Because I know where this is going to go. It's going to keep getting worse.

So I don't want it worse when you girls go. Because Danielle comes to me, by the way, you're not alone. This is. This is. Every couple people there's just people who are honest about it, and there's people who are not. Like people come. We never fight. Good. You have no clarity, no attraction. Your sex is garbage, and nothing's going on. Because without the up and down polarity, it's. The attraction ends right when you girls go to the words. Like, you come at us with words that if guys came at us with these words, it's over. But because you're our girls, you come at us and we're, like, sitting in it. Both of you. I want to hear from both of you, what is it is going on in your mind when you go to the. Below the belt words. You. Whatever. Like, she'll come at me like this too. Like, many times do you want a.

Guy who would take that?

He doesn't. That's how it ends up in a fight.

Yeah, that's. That's what I'm saying. I. I don't take it either. I'm like, listen, what the. You know.

You know what, though? It's. It's again, women have the reactive side too, you know, so we still sometimes all say stuff. I'm like, that just came out of my mouth. Or sometimes she actually.

The only way she actually apologized for what she said because I'm like, you're gonna apologize later. You. I. I wanted a apology because I'm chilling. Like, you need to calm the down. And I was being cool. I didn't say one bad word. I got called every word. And she's like, I'm tired. I told you. I'm like. Like, you're tired doesn't mean you can just lose your. On people. And it's like, do you.

On the one side, though, it's. It's safe. So, Angie, what do you think? What. When you go there. I know where Danielle goes. Her overstimulation is definitely a problem. That's why we have to create, like, space for her and for. She's stressed. She'll go there.

So it's the. For me, it's the overstimulation. And I try to tell people like, him or anybody, like, who I'm around. Like, I need a minute or I just need a second. And if I say that nicely, maybe it's just, like, over the shoulder or just. Just passes them by. So when I finally hit, I'm explosive. Like, and then I don't get upset at. And I get so mad because I'm like, I told you and you didn't listen. I've been telling you for days.

Yeah, no.

No guy understands. I'm tired when it's like a five minute video that you can just shoot. I'm trying to teach her that who gives a how you feel? Just shoot the video. And then later she makes like four grand off the video and she's like, oh, thanks. And I'm like, you need to compartmentalize at least this one thing.

Okay? Really?

Because for her she can make a workout video and then shoot a five, a 30 second call to action. And like I have guy clients who can't do this. There's women clients. I'm like, you guys are pathetic. Who are you putting on the other side of the camera that judges you that bad that you're siding with. With like they're siding with someone on the other side of the camera that doesn't like them for some reason.

So for me, it has nothing to do with what the other person is. It has to do with my physiological response in my body. I need a moment before I could jump on camera and say something. I can't do that. It's the energy I'm emanating. So I need a second.

You'll never be successful if you can't do that. Like, you have to be able to do that.

That's not true. I'm still in the process of kind of decompressing from the baby.

How many times have you been having to go on stage and like shit was melting apart and you still had to go on stage or something?

Well, tons. But here's the thing. I noticed even last week at 10x growth con, so they had the. They did like a 40,000 person speak off tour, right? And they had the final six that came to speak at the event. There were three women, three men. All three women were like, eh. All three guys were like fire breathing dragons.

Yeah.

And it was interesting watching that happen because there's an intensity that comes. And this, Wes, this took me forever to fuck. I've been with Danielle for 23 years. I could not have come to this real until the last like three years. But that really was about two years ago when she put it all in the line with me again, came to me and said, if this shit doesn't shift, we're done. Like. And it was serious to me. Like she couldn't feel me and I was like so unplugged from my ability to even like put myself in her shoes and feel it. And I could see with these women coming out, they're just. The approach was just different. It was like super different. And that was hard because when you get when you're front side, like, grinding promoter, marketer, there's like, an energy to this. And then I kind of was pushing her to become that. And what? It actually backfired because when I was pushing her to become that, she started becoming more masculine because she was learning how to be this weapon out into the marketplace like me, which then started causing even more chaos.

There's, like, competition.

I actually wanted to come home to calm, and I actually turned her into an aggressive weapon.

Oh, yeah. She would never go that far, though. I just want the quick call to action. So she. She's never gonna do that much. Much.

I didn't think she would. Danielle would either.

Sound like I was, like, super masculine. I wasn't. I just. I became a producer.

She's just not that type of personality. You know those girls who are kind of like, that I would never date, that I'd be like, shut the up, dude. Sit down.

She's got. She got the weapon.

She won't. She'll never be like that. She'll just. She'll do. She'll do it her own way. So she's still stubborn. She'll never fall. She'll go. So she'll be like, oh, you told me to say it this way. Well, I'm gonna do 30 of that. And I'm like, perfect. That's. I don't want you to sound like me. What the fuck?

It's also hard to take coaching from your significant other because Garrett. Garrett's a big producer, so obviously I want his advice, but he gets offended when I don't take 100% of his advice. I'm like, okay, well, I took 50% of her, 60% of it. But he's almost like, well, I'm the best at what I do. And I'm like, but that.

That's exactly why I said, she'll do 30%. I'm fine with that. Like, I just want it up. I don't give a fuck if you stumble the whole time. It just says, DM me for coaching at the. At the bottom. I don't give a. If you say all the wrong. Just get it the up. So someone knows to message that after they saw your tits and your abs and your work and how good you looked in your workout. Dude, people don't give a direct. Wait, wait, wait. Which program makes me look like that? They don't know what you said. They just went from straight from, like, video that looked like a straight porn almost. They're like, whoa. And this is women, too. Women want to look Good like that. She thinks they all want to grow and heal and heal their inner child. And I'm like, God damn, they want to look like you.

They do.

Heals your inner child when you look good when you got some money. Like, that heals a lot of problems.

I was gonna say for women, like, when they transform their bodies, they'll transform the outside.

That's everyone, though. Like, I tell everyone, I'm like, they go like this. They go, well, Wes, what if you tell everyone to have a. Because I don't, I don't even trust a man who don't have a hot chick. I'm like, you're a loser. Like, you ain't a salesman. Like, I'm like, your chick's ugly. Like, you suck.

What if they've been married for 20 years and she was hot in the beginning?

Yeah, but not. I'm talking about the guys that are in my, my level, you know, like my age, everything. Like, yeah, it's like, bro, like, no, that. Like, you're not a good salesman. You selling a woman's the best thing. And look what you sold. She's a troll. Like this. But this is the thing that people are like, what if you steer someone away? You tell someone to go get a 10 and they're. They, they're steered away from a girl who actually loved them. I'm like, that girl didn't love herself. She was 40 pounds overweight. Isn't the first thing everyone says is, if you don't love yourself, you can't love anyone else? Why the are we giving everyone a pass who doesn't love themselves, obviously, and calling them beautiful? They're not, they're not beautiful at all. They've trashed themselves. They're actually the furthest from it. They're low frequency. You have to always accommodate them. They. They suck your energy because they're insecure. Like, this is. They take everything from everyone. Like, you have to constantly coddle them. And yeah, so if, if someone didn't work on creating an exterior that is beautiful, and this is not everyone who's beautiful on the exterior. Some people are very shitty and look good outside. But for the most part, if they have solid daily habits and they focus on their habits, their character, their virtues, their values, and they're beautiful, then this is what we're looking for. And like, the whole thing is, is someone won't have the other. Like, oh, yeah, no, she really works on herself. No, she doesn't. Like, she doesn't love herself. The only true depiction of self love is Self investment. And if someone doesn't invest himself, they can't lie to me. Like, they've. They're disrespecting themselves all day. I know how they feel about themselves, right? And so they're going to project that onto me any chance they can get.

Right?

And they may be just projecting that on. They may be just doing that internally because there's people who project what's going on inside, and there's people who internalize it. Those people are almost uglier because we don't even know what the fuck's going on with them.

So Angie choosing to be back, knowing how intense he is as a man, Danielle had to make that decision with me, too. Knowing that comes with up and down. Huge highs, huge lows, big swings of energy. Up, down. What is it that you see in him that has you say, this is the roller coaster. I want to ride his heart and.

Who he is as a being, because he is very rare. I have never met anybody like him, and why would I go out in the world? I just had to let him kind of go through his scene because a lot of people ask me, how can you go back with him when he was dating someone else? I let him. I allowed him. I think I felt that he needed to go through that experience and I needed to do the inner work on myself. So that way I'm not running away. So. And I didn't focus on, hey, I need to work on myself to be back with Wes. I was like, I just need to be better within myself so I can.

But then she has to tell the truth and be like, well, he was trying to be back with me. I chose not to be with him. So he had no choice.

Did you guys. How many times have you broken up for?

Like, 79, at least seven.

Really. It's so funny, though. We. We've went to her dot. We were talking a couple. A couple just on our show, like, two months, two weeks ago. And we're like, so talk to us about. It's actually almost every couple. We're like, well, how often have you got? How close have you guys gotten a divorce? And one of the couples is like, every week. Every week. Every week. We're like.

She was going home on the. On the way back from the gym. She's like, I'll just go home. Then I'm like. And I just know not to say this stupid, because she's filling in my blanks. She's like, I'm like. I'm like, if I'm just using your body, then I won't use it then. And she's like, yeah, could you just get some other to do it?

I'm like, I didn't even say that's because a few. A few weeks ago, he went on Instagram and you were talking about, well, if you don't fulfill all my needs, I'll just get someone else here. And I was like, oh, wow. And I was like, so. So I kept that in there. That was a little dig that I realized.

If a guy consistently tells you that he just wants. And I'm not saying you have to come, fuck, jump on me all crazy, but when I come in the goddamn door, I want you to greet me. Like, I want to everyone to just say something.

Are you off your phone?

If. Yeah, if we're in the same. If. If I walk in or I'm in the room, come up and greet me.

When you walk in the house at the end of a long day, are you off your phone? All devices.

It doesn't matter. The thing is, you should be like, he's on his phone. He's trying to pay the bills for my family. Well, that.

That's where I'm gonna have to disagree. Like, if you come in the house and you're present, then I see you, and I'm like, babe, how was your day? Come give you a hug. But there's been times he's been on his phone. I'm like, hey, babe, how are you?

The guy doesn't want to be on the phone, though.

No, but what I'm saying is I've tried to greet him when he comes in off a long day, and he doesn't even notice me, like, how are you?

So I'm like, all right, sure, it's happened. So I've had. I've had to actually, like, be conscious of that in the car because he.

Says the same thing. He's like, I want to walk in and say like, I'm the king. And I'm like, you want me to be like, you're the king?

Yes, I do. Yes, I do. I want you to chat. I think you start chanting that with.

The girls on his phone.

You gotta always look at the deeper intention of what someone's doing. I don't want to work 20 hours a day. I don't want to be selling 10.

Hours away from you.

No. She should come up and know that I'm working to make sure they have a great life.

But how does she greet you if you're on your phone?

She just comes up and grabs me and it's like, hey, babe, come here. And this is.

But if you don't notice.

But really I'm not on my phone though really quickly.

The common denominator for me is the fact that I just need a nail. I just need a few hours. So I cannot be so overstimulated because I'm not. I'm like going crazy like miles with the baby. Somebody's coming in.

If I'm always the one who's, If I'm always the one starting like the sexual engagements or the, the kisses and.

The touching that again, the common denominator. If somebody's so hyper aware with the kids, they're not going to be.

No, she tries now, but, but she'll fight me at first when I say, hey, you need to start doing this. And she'll cause a blow up fight. And then like for the next three days she'll actually do it because she knows she should do it.

Who engages? Engages out of you guys. Who's the one that engages? More like, like me.

The whole.

All day.

I'm like, God damn, you're hot. Look at you. Exactly.

Exactly.

I don't think I've ever been told I'm remotely attracted. I'm like, surely I'm attractive. I, I get like 12, 000 solicitations from women a day and they're not even shabby. The last few of them, I said, you should hang out with my girlfriend. And they're like, girlfriend? I'm like, yeah, you should. Hey, you guys would be good friends. I went to Ball harbor here the other day and some girl was like following me around and I'm like, whatever the. I'm like, okay, I'm trying to buy her clothes. I'm on FaceTime with her and then I leave. And the girl's like, I saw you at Bal Harbor. I said, she's like, that was you at Barbara. I said, yeah. And then she's like, I like your tattoos or something. Yep, they're cool. And then I know, I think I'm getting set up because I think every girl's her friend or something. And then the girl goes, says something else like, da, da, da. And I'm like, you should hang out with my girl. Like, you guys, we should all go to dinner or something. She's cool, she speaks Spanish too or something. And I'm like, she's like, you're a girlfriend. I'm like, yeah. I call her my wife. Like, I just, this is what I do. I don't even like saying girlfriend. She Calls me Wes. She said, do you call him Babe, or do you have a name for him, or do you call him Garrett? She calls me Wes. She's never called me Babe or anything. I'm like, that's weird.

I'm just never Daddy. I just never really.

Yeah, that's what I told her. I said.

I'm like, I'm not gonna call you Poppy.

No, she did. I got her to do it one day.

She did my hat. If he has the hat on. He's wearing white. He's sitting. You're on the yacht.

It was hot. We were. And she was. She was speaking poppy in my.

I don't even speak Spanish.

And the point. It wasn't even your body that made the move. You ended me with a poppy in the air. Okay, so.

So that's the thing. What. What do you do when a chick calls you by your motherfucking name?

I have a little Angie. I have my little baby, and she keeps calling. She calls me her son's name, keeps calling him Carlos. So I like to say Wes. Wes.

Her son's name is Carlos. She has Carlos tatted on her back. And people troll me and go, who's Carlos? I'm like, her son, you weirdo. I'm like, dude, even if it was an ex, who gives. I have so many exes tatted on me. And I covered them up, but they're like, well, why don't you get her to cover up? It's her son's name. That'd be awfully disrespectful. The kids doing, like, days do. He's got a life sentence almost for murder. You know, he's fighting a murder charge at 18. And, dude, my mom covered my name up on me. Her. Like, that would be rude. Like, I wouldn't even want that to happen to him. You know, like, what the fuck? But just, people are so weird online. They're so up in our fucking business. But then that's what comes with having a. Purposely making a reality show.

So, Angie, like, when. When do you feel. When. When does it become with the kids where you can just melt? Do the kids have to be completely gone? Can you melt when she's asleep?

Yeah.

Is it when she goes to bed and then, like, you're good then?

Yeah.

What time's that?

Usually it just depends on what we're doing in the day, but just trying to get her on a better routine to where she's, like, asleep. So we have at least an hour or two before bed.

I think you guys literally do you.

Have somebody who can cover date night?

We did. We did. Last time we went out to like, you know, we went and met some people, we filmed some content. First she had no clothes. And I'm like, dude, and then I'm like, do you want to go? Because I'm like, I'm gonna go film with like some famous rappers and. And I don't want you to think I'm out doing something. So do you want to go? Yeah, I'll go. It's 5:50. We have to leave by like 7:00'. Clock. She doesn't have any clothes. We have to go to the mall, pick an outfit, and be up at Poppy steak at like 8:30. And I'm like, oh my, dude. And then somehow we pulled it off and it was like.

So was your closet empty? You didn't have any clothes in there?

No, I came with very little.

Okay, so you legit didn't have any clothes?

No.

Oh, she said she doesn't have clothes all the time.

No, what I'm saying is I really didn't have any clothes, but she has.

A house in Vegas where a lot of her clothes are out.

Okay, got it.

The whole thing is, is we get the clothes in time, we make it up there. And she's fighting me the whole way about.

I just don't.

I want you to go. Then I'm like, God damn, I just spent 10,000 on like some. An outfit for tonight just so you can go. And dude. And then I finally get her in the car and I'm like, here, just drink this in the back of the Phantom. By the time we get there, she. There's a picture go on my page. She's flipping off the camera, Red bottom, shoe in the pig. And. But I like wanted her to take that pic. I'm like, hell yeah. Hell yeah. Let's do a photo shoot while we're driving. And like, miraculously we pulled it all off, made an edit. She got a good photo, she got a little buzz and enjoyed herself. And that's all I wanted. I wanted to have a mental break and go enjoy a meal and drink a little bit. I think chicks should drink. They think too much. You're like, Wes, you don't glorify drinking, do you? I'm like, women should drink. They think too much. They should drink as much as they can. So to where, at least to where.

You gotta function as a mom.

But before they pass out though, if they come, if you do all that and they pass out drunk and you, you don't even get to them. I'm pissed.

Oh, my God.

If I have to jack off in a mansion, we're done. This.

That's not me. Just.

She did once the other time. But lately we've been having, like, marathons of sex. Like when the baby falls asleep and, like, enjoying ourselves. And then that's why she said, you used my body for hours. I'm like, you're lucky I last hours. These, you can't even last 20 minutes. That could last three days.

Okay, all right.

So you need a nanny so that.

This can be shenanigans we have now. You can have daytime shenanigans with the nanny. We've at least come to one.

Like the daytime. Because I can just get it done. I get it out the way. I don't have to wait till 11:30 when the baby's asleep and she crawls in and it's like, okay, hey, like, we got some time now. I'm like, I'm asleep.

Do you get up at like, 4:00am?

I get up at 2:45.

You guys are nuts. That's. He gets up like three usually.

Yeah.

And I'm like, how the else you gonna do everything I do?

You get up really early.

No.

Yeah.

I come back and go to the second round. I go to the gym. I drive up and go to the gym with my guys, do my training with my people. And then I come back, I try to make sure she's ready. And then I go with her to push her really hard at the gym and make sure she's doing drop sets, rest pauses. She's not.

You go back to the gym?

Yeah, I go back and I make her train hard.

And then.

And then I film her too. And I make sure she has good, good footage. And then we try to get her video up and her call to action. That's what we thought about today. Because she doesn't realize I do all that for me. And then I come back and make sure she does it because I want her to have money. If something ever happened to me, I want her to have her own business running to where she's making 100 grand a month.

What's cool, though, is when you have a girl that makes money, you know she wants to be with you because she wants to be with you.

I don't care about that. Like, everyone's. Everyone's always like, she wants me for me. I'm like, every girl wants.

Well, no, we want to.

I don't care. But I. I really don't care. Like, I really am. I don't need anything. Like, I want to make sure that, you know, I would do anything for you. How people treat me, whatever the, you know, like, I never expected many people to treat me very well. She does. But, I mean, I don't think people could ever really, like, do for me what I would do for them.

Them.

And it's just how I think. But I mean, the whole thing is I don't need her to do anything more than she's doing.

Why do you want her to have success?

Just because I know how good it makes me feel to make money each day. Like, what. What really gets that pain off my back and the stress in my heart out is if I make six figures that day. So, I mean, if she makes 10 grand a day, I know what that's gonna feel like for her. She's gonna be like, let's run it. Like, she's gonna be so happy. Like. Like I know the feeling. And no, anyone who says it's not about money hasn't made six figures a day for a long period of time. They just haven't. They haven't had seven figure days.

Like, well, it's almost like she can experience that. Like, when I started working out and training for bikini competitions, he was not lifting weights. He was like, surfing and doing all this stuff. And I was like, encouraging him to get into weightlifting. Not because I'm like, oh, you look bad, but I know how strong and powerful I felt doing it.

It. That's 100.

When he did it, I was like, there you are. Like. And now he understands.

When I make her work out hard, I'm like, are you sure you don't want to go harder? Because then she's shining after and I get a better person. So I'm like pushing her hard so I get the better version of her after. So I'll go and do that too. But she probably take offense to me saying, I don't really expect much, but that's just how I roll. Like, if you want to find the happiest people, it's the people who have the greatest work ethic and the lowest expectations. High expectations in a. High expectations and a shitty work ethic makes a miserable life. So relationship too. Like, I have massive expectations for myself, for her, and not much expectations of her. Like, for me. Like, I really just need to get laid every day.

We have a standard.

Yeah, she has to be really hot. Yeah.

Yeah.

Well, I mean, she's really hot. She's not getting. She's one of those people who's hot. So she's I need to have sex every day. Like, that's what I need. And I mean, she wouldn't be with me if she's.

She's more than just pretty. Obviously there's connection.

And I. I mean, like, the whole thing is. Is like, people believe in all that a lot. Like, me personally. Like, I. I don't really connect much. Like, I don't care about that. Like, I. I literally have a purpose of connecting with the world more than, like, sitting down and fucking. I see a lot of the. The entrepreneur content and they're based around, like, literally, like, you have to spend all this energy connecting with your fucking wife and what the are you gonna do to understand her nervous system? I'm like, God damn, how the. Am I gonna make 20 million a year and understand your nervous system too? That, like, let's connect on the easy. Which is like, I will die to take care of you guys. I will do whatever the. It needs to be. Like, just like, this is a simple. I need you tell me what you need from me and don't make it be something I have to guess at because I don't know how to do that. That.

Do you guys spend a lot of time together?

Not much. I mean, all day, but I'm just saying we don't. All day, but not much like, real time because it's like the baby and this and that.

You know what? Just being together in each other's spaces, it keeps you connected. Like, we just went to Vegas last week and we don't. It's not like we're hanging out, having these deep, connective conversations. We're together.

Yeah. There's people who you're in the room with and they drain you because they need validation all the time. We're both not like that. Like, I mean, like, there's people, like, if they were in your house, you'd be like, get this person the out of here. I don't know why they're draining the out of me just being here. I feel like they need me to go address them or something. And it's like, if you can be in a house with someone and, like, not feel that way, that's like, comfortable to me. Like, I'm just. I'm comfortable with her in my life. I don't need anyone. Like, I've been alone for long periods of time, but, like, I need a girl on her level of hotness. Like, I just need that. And it's like people are like, they want me to say it's something deeper. It's like, well, she doesn't possess anything that irritates me. I'm more deductive of a thinker. I'm not like, look at all these pluses you have. Well, I'm like, you don't have any negatives.

You know, she's hot. But you've probably been with other hot girls. So what brings you back together?

Yeah, but just because, I mean, the baby, I mean, it's just can't be because I'm just super attracted to her. Like, I'm just really attracted for sure.

Here. Listen, just being around you too, here's what I know. I'm going to spend time with you off camera. We're not marketing, we're not promoting. We're not even on our cell phones. And this is a part of life I've tried to communicate to people too about because people know not only do I support you, not only I run with you, not only publicly endorse you, nothing like I don't give a. I protect you in rooms and you're not around. And people say, why do you do that? Because I've seen both sides. I've seen the marketing side, I've seen the sales side. I've also seen another guy and people who have spent time with you rarely. People don't rarely see this online.

They're not looking for it.

But this piece that I've got experience with you and now getting to experience you, Angie, in my home for sure, bro. You can tell me all day long there's not anything connection. It's impossible. You do have a vibrational connection with each other. She sees and that's why she's.

That's why my whole thing is I don't really connect with people. I connect with God and he tells me what to do. I'm told to serve and take care of them.

I know, but it's not like.

It's not like I have a choice. I've tried not to. And I can't get away from the call inside me that's like, you owe me.

You know what's fun too? You can't get away from the one woman, the queen, who's been called into the kingdom either.

Yeah, like there's a reason why.

That's probably how you're like, I have a hot girl that God called me to be with. That's probably.

I don't think you should. I don't think you should ever really report to your girl, report to your family, report to your clients. I think you should listen to your conscience and what it tells you to do and never ask a question. I think you should be like.

Like, well, if you ignore it, it just keeps coming back. Probably like, you guys broke up. And you're like, why am I feeling this? Like, draw.

Because if I really went by how I feel, like if I went, like, connection or not, I'd be like that. Did you have a. She was talking to me in the car over some this.

But it isn't. It isn't it.

God would be like, no, no, no. There's a bigger reason why you guys are together.

Yeah, bro. That's the connection piece, though. That's a piece. That's a piece that keeps power couples who are called to do God's work souls together.

Let's also do something together.

And that. That currency is what keeps us.

Every year, I'm like, damn it, we're still hitting it together. Like, I just know he's my person. Like, every year I'm like, I guess we'll be married again. That's not to say I don't love him, but it's just like, you feel like a calling almost together. And when you feel that for us, it's like, I'm like, we got work to do together.

Yeah.

My whole thing is she's probably the only person who I'm proud to be around. Like, I always tell her, I'm like, I feel lucky. Lucky to be with you. I'm proud of you. Like, I show her off all the time. I'm like, she winning? You know? And it's not like, these are the attributes I care about, but I wouldn't be with someone who. Who was a shitty person and just had these attributes. So when people do that, they're so stupid. It's like. Like, do you think someone of my caliber would just choose someone just for looks who's a horrible person?

Right.

Like, just understand that we got the good person side already taken taken care of. Dumb. You know, and then just realize that this. I'm 100 attracted to this person. There's no. It wouldn't ever get better to me, you know? And so that's what I would want. And so that's why I strive to be the best in every way that I can be in all reality. I think when we take photos, I look better most of the time. I mean, and I think I'm just. I literally, like, you look better than her, but in person, she looks better. But for some reason, I look so, so good in photos. And I. It's just. I try for that, though.

I. I know Your angles. You know, your angles.

No, I want, like, definitely nailing the angles.

I want her to be as proud of me as I am of her, but she needs to work on her IG angles. She. She'll be filming like this. And I'm like. I'm like, that's not an angle for you. It doesn't work.

Work good. She's not your level being an influencer yet. She's new.

Yeah, but she is.

That's the other reason why I'll be.

Like, what the is happening? I'll be looking at her. I'm like, she looks so good. Then I'll pull the camera out. I'll have me looking from the angle. I'm like, how the are you. This picture of I'm looking at it, and.

Can you give him lessons?

It's crazy. Like, I. I just.

I just don't care. I literally don't care. I'm like, every angle here.

I don't want to see up your nose.

She'll do the wrong angle with her calls to action. I'm like, can I film it? Set your camera up. You look very good. Straight on.

Yeah.

And she's like, what? Like, I just was. The baby was right there. I'm like.

You know what? Sometimes, though, like, the authentic ones where you're holding your kids and they're throwing, like, those convert better.

I tell her to do those ones. I'm like, you do the call to action with baby in your arms. They'll understand. Yeah, like, but the. The main thing is, is, like, I. I try very hard to be. If I pull up somewhere, I beat everybody. I don't give a who they think they are. Like, I'm gonna take more attention than every single person at Ball harbor, at Design District, anywhere we go, it's gonna have to be one of the highest level celebrities to beat me if we pull up. And, like, I want her to be on that level. I know what that is. I know how monetizable that is. I know how much. I just know how much that even commands someone's.

What's the power? Couple things.

And it just. And it brings you. It brings you a high level of confidence. She doesn't see how hot she is. And it's from, like, her not showcasing herself correctly. Like, by not wanting to buy clothes, by not. That's when people say, oh, you're materialistic. I know she's worth it. Like, what do you mean? I'm telling these girls they're worth it. Like, Loon's closet is probably more Expensive than most these busted chicks around here. Like, she only wears Fendi and Balmain and everything. Dope, you know, she's. That's what I want her to do. She only flew private, like, her whole life. Like, it's. I just want them to know they're worth it. I have a picture of her in every color. Rolls Royce interior. The baby. And I wish I could post it. Be like, this is how you grew up. Like, we just. We wanted more for you. Like, the men you're around should never be less than me. Like, I would tell her, go date someone better than me.

It creates a standard I get. When Garrett and I were like, this is like, years ago.

Your kids won't look for some loser.

Well, I tell him it's a standard because he was raised with, like, nothing, and I was raised with a little bit more abundance. And he'd always like, you're on my ass about, like, wanting to produce more and produce more. I'm like, you know what, though? Like, that's kind of the standard. And I'm like, I'm never going to apologize for how I was raised.

You know, I. I told these people in a video yesterday, I said, if she said I'd be okay with living with you in a cardboard box, I'd say, what the are you letting me live like that for? Like, women are letting their men be losers.

Yeah.

Like you women out there. It's your fault your dude's fat. It's your fault he's broke.

But what do you say to the guy? Because I quit him.

Oh, no.

I'll push him to grow. But then sometimes I'm the, right? So I'm like, well, you want someone to push you, but then not push you too much. Because then I'm the.

I don't give a how much someone pushes me. They better tell me to do handle more. You know, I'll do it.

What if Angie was pushing you to be listen more?

I can't do that. I. I'm not going to tell her to make 20 million, am I? Hey, go make 20 million next year. She'd be like, you're a lunatic.

I got it here. And so here's what it is.

Don't tell me to listen. I won't tell her to make 20.

Million for every 100,000 Wes has to do breath work with you.

I won't do that either.

He does every night.

And then he'll be doing breath work every night.

Me doing all the work at £250, trying to bust a nut in under three hours. But anyway, the whole thing is, is like, I don't, I don't agree with these guys doing breath work. And I, I don't like any of that.

Do you do any of the hacks you like the cold plunging and the red light?

If I, I don't need any of that. I'm hard as a motherfucker.

You're like super healthy, but this is.

For guys who are like, weak and like, need to take a cold shower.

Any of the biohack stuff.

Dude, I'm a monster mentally. Like, I know I outrank everybody, so I don't need to like, take a cold shower.

You eat healthy and you work out.

I don't believe in, I believe everything. It comes down to how you spoke to yourself. The precursor is the shower. Like the cold shower. And then you spoke to yourself. Like, yeah, I did it again. I stayed in for 45 seconds. Like, if we're talking about the way someone speaks to them, no one outranks me. Like, so I don't. Everyone thinks it's the shower. Everyone thinks it's no FAP because they didn't masturbate for 30 days or something. Like it did some scientific thing. No, it was. You desired to masturbate or have sex and you chose not to. So the power was the choice. The power was the choice of getting under the cold shower. Like, I choose to speak to. I can have some like, crazy going on in my life and choose to still tell myself this is a part of my story. Like, I need this to happen so I never victimize. Like, no matter what's going on, I'm like, I need this to take place. This is who I am. You know, I'm always writing a big ass story in a movie people would want to watch. Other people are like, like victimizing in their most, their self talk, you know, self talk is everything. But that's, that's why they're like, how long did you, could you stay in that cold plunge? I'm like, like, dude, what bro? Like, like just fine, bro, whatever. I, I, I just, I, I don't do any of that.

I did one, one time and I was like, that's for the crazy people. What?

Would it work? Would it make you better? Yes. Is it really worse? But is it really worth that much of my time when I could be selling? Like, I sell. Like, I, I would tell someone, you want to change your life? Okay, spend the three hours in the morning bettering yourself and the rest of the day selling something for six to eight hours. Like, I don't give a what you're selling. Get on the platform and ads, content, whatever it is, sell for six hours. Like, I want you to build yourself in the morning, then whatever. You couldn't live without that product or service. Sell that for six to eight hours, and that's your day. And then the rest of time, spend with the family or gaps that you have.

What's the amount that Angie would have to make for you to go to a silent meditation retreat?

I would do it for. If she just told me that I get X amount of sex or something, it would have been easy money. I would do it for sex. But she's been good at that lately. She's actually been good at it. And like, then before, it kind of felt like a chore. Like, she didn't want to do it because she was like, not present. Like, oh, the baby this, that. I'm tired. I'm like. Like this, you know, I'm telling you, she's too.

So you're kind of getting out of the window a little bit like that first, like two years for a mom.

Like, I was her while she was pregnant. Like, that was crazy.

It's funner when you're pregnant. When you have that baby now you.

Yeah, but no guy wants to be like, come on. Like, any guy who's. That's a special guy right there. He might have special needs at a certain point. That might be specially handy.

I thought it was hot when I was pregnant, so I don't know.

Well, no, but me, we're the type of guys who think our group girl's hot.

Like, I just think every form of you is hot.

Yeah, I think every. I think she is the hottest. Like, I tell her all day and like, maybe she would follow suit and give me a half a compliment, make fun of me. They're like, you're all needy. You need your girl to compliment you. And I'm like, you're on my right now trying to get compliments through. You're trying to get validation through me saying something back to you online, kiddo.

Okay, so final question for you two. This is a good question because Wes is bringing up a point I brought up. I've heard every guy I know that produces a high level that's aggressive and intense. Why is it. Why is it so difficult for you two, as powerful, beautiful women to give the verbal back to man, you're hot, you're attractive, you look good. It comes once in a while from you to me, but it's like 10 times more from Me to you all day than it ever is the other direction. I get the, oh, what's wrong with your eyebrow? Oh, what's going on right here? What you get the answer is. And then. Angie, what? Because this is like a common thing. This is like, for couples. This happens all the time, where it's like almost one sided.

I would say sometimes you don't hear the words of validation because you're too sucked into whatever you're doing. And so for me, I'm like, what does a girl got to do? Like, I gotta run by and like, literally like flash you and dance and be like, hello. And then I got your attention. So there's little things that I do that I like. I'm like, good morning, how are you? And I don't think he notices it because. Because he's not being present. So my question back for you is, how many times are you missing me giving you validation because you're not present?

I wouldn't know that because I'm missing them.

Exactly.

So I'm. I'm not missing hers. She calls me Wes, okay? She doesn't even call me baby or babe or anything like that. She calls me by my name.

What do you want her to call you?

I want her to at least say babe or something. Something normal.

Like, what do you. What would you call them? Would know if you had a name.

Babe.

Imagine she can't even give, like, words of like. Like, what is that? Words of endearment or something. Whatever. She can't even say that. Imagine giving a full compliment. That would be like pulling teeth.

And do guys want to be complimented on, like, what do they want to be complimented? Like, like taking care of the family. Like their nice beard line, if they do.

Angie, what do you think?

I just think. Think that it comes naturally, but sometimes if I see somebody, like, for me, it's like energy. His energy is really big. Sometimes I'm like, I'm gonna let him process because that's how I process. But that's a need that he needs filled. So I have to, you know, I.

Mean, it'd be anything that they're doing good with, you know, like, like, oh, that looks good on you. Like what you're wearing. Or. Or you look. You look bigger right now or something. Thing. Like, I mean, it'd be what they work on, you know, like every. I always tell her that what she's doing is good. You know, I'm like, I'm like, you look sexy. Like, Jesus, what you're wearing right now. Crazy.

It's more Natural for men to give out compliments, especially if they're married to somebody they're attracted to. But I, I do believe that women.

Were the only ones always the ones getting the compliments.

No, I believe that there's a level where men are so into work, which we're attracted to, that we love that they're willing to go out and work. But with that comes of like, hey, you're gonna not, you're not gonna be able to receive these compliments if you're like, texting. There's been literally times where I'm like, babe, your shoulders look really good today.

And he's like, I, I would hear him if they came. I still, I still get called Wes.

Okay, so we have two, two fundamentals we've uncovered. One, from here forth, King west shall be called Babe. Babe.

That's fine.

Number two, from here forth, in the kingdom Watson, there will be a new participant on the team called a nanny. Called the full time nanny.

Yeah.

Oh, my God. YouTuber. You know, it's going to be fun. We're going to do these two things.

We're going to have, like, two things.

We're going to HAVE like this, the 6090 day challenge.

My whole thing is this too. Just don't say you're leaving anymore. Like, I don't do that. Like, I, I, I, like, don't want to ever say get out of here, leave or anything like that. I, I want the chick who goes, I don't give a. No matter what, I'mma roll with you. Like, I, I ain't going nowhere that you can't get me to leave.

So this is the only thing. This is when I get up. I, I'm telling you, earlier, I had to clear up that belief from the other day. I had, I was holding resentment from that, from that, the, the Q A when you were like, I'll have someone else or whatever.

You should just.

So I'm like, okay, you want someone else, I'm gone. Yeah, but that doesn't mean you'll have any access to me. You can have whatever you want, but I'm gone.

But I'm, but I'm just saying, I know you could get someone else.

So, I mean, don't threaten that if you don't want me to leave me. That's why I held on to that. I had, I said it for you.

I was like, if I can't take care of you, I would want you to be with someone who could.

Yeah, I think so.

In all reality, like, women, like, we want sex from you and you want financial support from us.

Let's just be honest those two things. And also to both the man and the woman want to feel safe in the relationship. Garrett and I've been married for 21 years, and we have said stupid to each other. And we finally got to this place in the last, like, I don't know, year. We'll be getting a bit explosive fight. And I just say you're still my. We wake up the next morning. Like, you're still my person. Because I don't. And. But I had to work on that. I'd be like, I'm out. You know, that's.

That's the only thing you need to say is reaffirm to them and he doesn't. You need reassurance.

Yeah.

I've shown it. When. When we're broken up, I'm like, I'll never. Just tell me what you need. I don't. Even if we broke up, I'd still take care of. I'm just not all emotional and gay like that to where I'm gonna trip on everything. I'm just not like that. I don't care. Like, I just know I have to and I'll find a way to do it. That should be their. Your guys's response to what you need to do. I don't give a. I just know I got to do it for you.

Yeah.

You know, but I mean, my whole thing is. Is I've never been conditional. She don't have to meet no conditions for me to be there. Like, it's just. There's nothing that has to change. Like, she just has to let me be there. Yeah.

I think you just keep showing up. Like, she'll. She'll realize, like, you keep showing up.

That's. That's why I wonder over. Because I just kept doing it.

Yeah.

With. When getting nothing.

Right.

And like, because I was like, I don't need like. That's the biggest fear of a woman, though. A guy who really could, like, really doesn't need like. Like most women. She's strong for dating someone like me. You're strong for being with someone again. Like, most women would not date a man who, like, like, really could do without them. You know, like. And I don't want to ever do without her. I've told her that every time, but I've had to. And I can, you know.

Right.

And it's like, I'm sure they. She can too. But I mean, the whole thing is women fear the. Out of that they want you to, like, really need need them. Like, these dudes who do who are so jealous are like, would you like if people followed your girl? I'm like, I don't give a what you do. You come.

Yeah, I actually don't like that. I like how. How secure you are.

Yeah.

I like the security.

I literally could give a. You know?

Yeah.

Like, I just. I'm gonna take care of you anyways. It's deeper than that. Like, I owe you.

Right.

Like, any woman who's ever, like, been a positive force in a man's life, he should owe her for life. Like, just straight up.

Yeah.

And if she's been a negative one. No, he should know her.

Okay, so we have the babe. We have the nanny. Now we're gonna flip it. What's the he wants babe? What's one thing you want from Wes?

I just don't want to be called Wes. It seems weird.

That's a babe.

Even when she does this. Thank you. If I buy, like, a smoothie, I'm not changing that. I'm like, stop saying thank you if I bought a goddamn smoothie.

What if she said, thanks, babe?

I'm not changing that.

You don't have to change it. But I feel weird if I'm buying my girl, my wife, and my stepdaughter validation.

Thanks, babe.

My wife. My wife says the same thing, but I feel weird.

Like, to the people around, like, I'm like. Like I'm a stranger or something.

If he buys me a Chanel, I'm like, thanks, babe.

Yeah.

Buying something real but not, like a smoothie.

No.

He opens my door every time I get in the car and I tell him thank you every time. I think it's cute.

What's the thing?

Change that. I just think it's weird.

What's the thing that you want? He wants bed. What do you want?

Oh, I just. I know this is weird. I just need a little bit of time to myself so I can be in present time and do all of those things a little bit. That's it.

The time she needs by herself. She needs to find that time. If I needed time, I need to find it, Right?

Yeah.

Yeah.

I can't help her.

Yeah. It's happening.

This nanny, which is when the nanny shows up, I go like this. Oh, Griselda Blanco Here.

That'd be the wrong name. Okay, so this is. We're solving this. This thing is going to actually explode your relationship. We watched what it did for Danielle, and I like, and having people who are a smooth fit in your world and also can be in your world without any friction.

It's weird because we'll go on vacations and we almost never fight. And then at home, like once a week we have have some kind of fight. And I was like, always over the kids. It's with building life together and kids, it's. You can't even like, take it personal. It's just the stress of life that somebody says something, another person says something, it triggers something. And you're like, why? So it'll help. It'll help just alleviate that pressure.

That's my whole thing. I'm like, I don't even care if we fight. I expect to not go. Perfect. How quick can we have sex again? This is what I'm worried about. On that note, I can't focus. Then the only thing you can't focus, focus. Of course, if your chick's hot and you're walking around all day, like, God damn.

No, I can always sense you.

And you're loyal, and you're loyal. So you're waiting for that one person. So if your guy isn't this way, he's probably cheating on you. Okay. If he's not really tripping on having sex with you, he's watching a lot of porn or he's cheating on you. Dumb. Okay. Straight up. But the whole thing is, is like, if I'm chasing around and I'm saying I, I need to do this, like, understand, it's because I'm way too waiting for just you. And that's good. And second off, like, I can't focus. I'm sitting here just imagining these scenarios all. And I'm trying to get back to work, but I'm like consumed with these scenarios.

There's been times where I'm like, oh gosh, women don't do that.

Women don't do that.

I can feel it. So I'm like, babe. And. But he'll be so busy, like he'll push me off. And I'm like, you're doing this to yourself.

Oh, no, I won't do that. I'll put everything.

He falls asleep, like 8:00pm I'm like, you did that to yourself.

No, but I think that what you said to you had your sacred, sacred time in the morning. I think I need that for myself so I can be have those moments.

Yeah, yeah.

It is a game changer, like all day long. Yeah.

My nanny shows up at seven and I don't even go to the gym till nine. But I don't care. I want to like sit and look at my emails, do my instagram post. Just have that time for me to like clear my mind. Then I go work out. Then I come back and shower. And then I'm like, oh, just that morning time.

What about friends? Like what. What about why do women like when they get in relationship, refused to have friends?

What's different with your kids? Like, like it's. I do have friends. Like, I mean, we just moved here, but it's like we go to like lunch dates and this. Now we go to the gym together or something. But I've got Alyssa. She's my only friend pretty much here. We just moved here, but it.

No matter where we lived, she just didn't really do stuff with other like women.

I don't need, I don't need big friend groups. In fact, I like, I enjoy going out like, like our friends Carter and Alyssa. You want to know what I told them? I said, you know, I like you guys because I don't have to be on. You don't want anything from me. You don't need anything. It's not a fake conversation because I've had friends in the past where I'm like, I'm like, I don't want to talk drama. I don't. So I only want to hang out.

Those are those people that drain you like I was talking about.

Yeah. So it's like I'm very selective of my friends because I've had groups of friends like that were like, let's go to dinner. And I'm like, I don't want to go to dinner with you. That just sucked energy for me. That didn't do anything.

That's the thing. Anything fake is repelled from like auth. If you're authentic, then you repel fake real quick. So that's fine. That should happen. But I still have like five guys in my team that I work out with every day that nobody caught. Nobody drains anyone. Everyone knows their order of operation. It gives me that time to be with my dudes and. And then I come back and I'm like, I want to see her. She doesn't have that time. She got the baby. She by herself. She doesn't. If she went and hung out with a friend, I know she would come back. How I come back is people just don't know themselves versus very well. Like, I. I know what everyone needs because I've scheduled my. I've situated my life and everything so perfectly that I know you need to make money. I know you need to go do that with some friends. I know you need all these things and I know you need to lift weights. I know, I know you need this.

I think guys need their bros. Like, they need their buddies. And I don't think women are the same way. Honestly. Like.

Yeah, I. Yeah.

It's like if we hung out and we were chilling each other's like, space, I'm like, oh, you're. You're great. Like, that's how I feel about, like a list up. Like, you're fun to be with because, like, we don't need anything and it's chill. But I don't feel like I need to go to the gym with my five ladies and get my girl.

That would be weird. I think that would be weird, but I just think they need like two days a week where they actually go do something with some girls and like, go speak to girls about the. That they try to tell us. Like, don't tell me all that.

I don't like relationships like that. I'm like, I don't want to dump my. My baggage on you about what's bugging me about Garrett. So like, for me, yeah, I just internalize it and blow up.

Well, I don't internalize it. I do my. I. I do Theta healings on myself. So. And that's what I like to do in my free time.

Yeah.

To be honest, I don't necessarily. Yeah, but that's people who do the theta healing.

Yeah, that's her having a girl time. The girls she mentors is like her girl time.

So she.

When she comes back from that, she feels good.

I see. That's it for me because I coach like thousands of hairstylists. When I go put on a class, like, I come back tired but almost energized.

100.

Yeah, like very. It's. I have my time, I'm connecting, I'm teaching. So for me, like, I enjoy that's like more fulfilling social time for me.

Yeah.

It's because I almost feel like I'm giving back.

Right.

So 100. What I mean, you like. But even when. When you. When we would go around friends or something, it would turn into that, you know, everyone would kind of help each other.

Yeah.

Well, you guys have been amazing.

Thank you.

Fun to get to know you more. And you guys do have a good.

You for sure. Connected.

Yeah. Well, I'm. I'm. The whole thing is I'm not attracted to anyone else but connected.

My whole thing is such a hard ass West.

I just don't believe in the words people use are just like, they them up.

Like.

Yeah.

Like there doesn't need to be chemistry. Why would there need to be something for you to say? Like, I feel that I. I have to do this. You know?

You went even deeper. You're like, God says, I'm with her. I'm like, wow. He took it like.

That's what I feel like. I'm not like someone who gets a choice. Choice?

Yeah.

Like, I don't give myself a choice to be a man. I don't give myself a choice in a lot of. I just know it's, like, what I'm supposed to be and do well, Just.

Know this, Angie, you're. Wes is still figuring out if he's connected to you, but God has connected to you, which means Wes is connected to you. That's easy. It's already done.

Her whole thing is. Her whole thing is she reports to God before everyone else anyways, too.

I do.

I know.

I just. My whole thing is A lot of the. A lot of the God teachers. I can't.

Oh, bro, I get it. Christian teachers, the God teachers, the spiritual, the implant medicine people. There's a whole lineup, and 95 of them are full of.

That's a whole different.

There's a whole world of. All right, you want to close it down?

Sure.

All right. You guys are amazing to have in our home. I look forward to connecting with you more. Bring your kids over. We'll do a pool day sometime. It's fun. But if you guys are listening to this show, though, like, you guys are amazing. Wes. Wes. He says funny, but he's. He's got a good heart. I can feel it. And he's got a beautiful girl with him. So you guys definitely check. What are both of you guys. Social medias. I'm sure they all know, but we'll.

Put them on the show. They'll know.

My Instagram is MBS underscore. Angie, Perfect.

Real West Watson fit perfect.

Well, follow them on social media. You guys, if you're listening to this show and you thought it was funny, as we understand. But also, if you got some value out of it, if you're kind of going through some of the same stuff, share it with your friends. That's why we do this podcast. We don't do it because we have a ton of time. We want to add value to you guys. So thank you so much for tuning in to the date you write podcast, and we'll see you every single week with some new spicy episodes.

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